How to know if my ex loves me, even if he has a girlfriend? (13 signs)

Your ex has left you and you still don’t understand how that man who caressed your cheeks and looked into your eyes with deep love, has fallen out of love with you.

You are probably devastated and confused, especially if he is already in a relationship with another woman.

But it is better that you do not get ahead of yourself, since your ex may still love you, even if he has a girlfriend. Find out by reading the 13 telltale signs below.

13 Sure Signs Your Ex Still Has Feelings For You, Despite Having a Girlfriend

1) Keeps in touch with you

One of the most obvious signs that your ex still loves you is that they haven’t cut off communication with you after they broke up.

For example, he may text you out of the blue or contact you for really weird and flimsy reasons.

Men don’t usually crave constant attention from an ex-girlfriend if they have completely fallen out of love with her.

If he keeps showing up in your life for no good reason, it’s a sign that he still loves you.

2) Keep explaining your breakup

Do you feel the need to keep repeating the reasons why you decided to break up?

Does he text or email you about the reasons he left?

Has your ex apologized many times for the breakup?

This is all part of a “closure” that your ex is trying to get from you. This means that he is still working out the breakup himself.

The fact that your ex feels the need to keep talking about the breakup shows that you are still on his mind and that he might have second thoughts.

3) He wants you to remain friends and makes time for you

Usually, when an ex wants to stay friends, they aren’t really ready to deal with the loss.

Rather than disappear completely, you want to stay in touch, because it seems safer, than to make a complete break.

Because he hasn’t lived life without you, the unknown scares him.

In addition, he wants to keep you close as “plan B”. Especially, if he left you for someone else, wanted a “break” or because he got carried away and is afraid of regretting it.

Your ex may have really meant that they wanted to stay friends, at the time they said it.

However, in practice, this can be painful as it keeps reopening the wound, which you are trying to heal. This may not help you move on with your life.

The real sign that your ex still loves you is if they constantly try to spend time with you after saying they want to stay friends.

You know your ex better than anyone. If your ex is just trying to keep you close by being friends, to feed his ego, it’s best to avoid this type of situation. In this way, nothing will stand in your way, to lead you towards new horizons.

4) Your ex is constantly making you notice his achievements and self-improvement

Does your ex mention how great you’re doing at the gym?

Did you finally take action and get a job?

Does he mention how all those things that bothered you have changed while you were together?

These are all potential signs that your ex still loves you and wants your approval. He wants you to notice his changes and feel proud of him.

Remember that men don’t brag to people they don’t care about.

If you are convinced that breaking up was a mistake and that you really should be together. I have a good new for you.

Relationship coach Samantha Sanderson has created a method through which she helps women get their ex-partners back.

This method makes your Ex think of you and be convinced that YOU are the woman to whom he belongs.

Here is the LINK to a short presentation of this method that will surprise you.

5) He lengthens the times to complete the earrings that he has with you

Do you still have a lot of your ex’s belongings?

Does your ex take time to finish any business you share?

Maybe there’s a very special book left for you in your ex’s apartment. Maybe they share a bank account.

You have called him a thousand times to recover your book or to close the account. But he constantly makes excuses not to resolve this issue with you.

He knows how important these things are to you and that you will be calling him tirelessly until they get it fixed.

This is how he manages to keep your attention on him, since he still has feelings for you and does not want you to leave his life.

6) Your ex’s friends or family try to convince you to talk to him

If you have mutual friends, they may give you comments or make you see that he misses you.

They may even go so far as not to be subtle about how he still has feelings for you.

When your ex still loves you and wants you back, they can ask their friends and family for help in trying gently to get closer to you.

A while ago, I was abruptly dumped by a man who still loved me.

After a while, his best friend started communicating with me through Facebook.

I was completely confused. This guy, who I barely knew, was trying his best to strike up a conversation with me.

Then when we started talking more deeply, he started asking me about my ex and how I was doing after the break up. Then I started to think that maybe my ex wasn’t ready to talk to me yet and he had sent reinforcements to find out what situation he was in.

Months later we got back together and I verified my suspicion that he still loved me.

7) Your ex is constantly present on your social networks

Does your ex boyfriend check your social media and like your posts?

Do you still comment and share things you post?

These are all indications that your ex may not have gotten over you.

If they didn’t care about you anymore, they wouldn’t be monitoring your social media content like essential breaking news.

On the other hand, your ex might also be posting a lot more than usual about how incredibly happy and perfect their life is right now.

Research suggests that people who keep in touch with their exes on social media are more likely to harm their new relationships. This is something they know, but they continue to do it, because they feel something for the person from their previous relationship.

The decision to disconnect from your ex on social media is a very individual decision.

An intermediate option that some people take is to unfollow you, but continue to be “friends.” It’s a convenient middle ground, if you finally want to get back together with your ex. Thus, while he arrives at that moment, you will not suffer for others.

8) Your ex asks if you are dating someone new

It’s completely natural to wonder if your old partner has moved on after your breakup. Regardless of whether you still love him or not.

Many times people are just curious.

The give away sign to your ex that he still loves you is if he acts competitive with your new love. You may also make uncomfortable comments or talk bad about him.

If you feel like your ex is acting weird due to the fact that you’re dating someone new, it’s probably because he wants to get back together.

9) Your ex keeps in touch with your friends and family

Guys who don’t feel anything for their ex anymore cut ties and move on.

If your ex is still in touch with your friends and family after your breakup, they may be doing so to find out about your life.

That’s not normal behavior, unless he wants a chance to go out with you.

Otherwise, talking to the people you love would be too painful or pointless for your ex to bother.

If you want to get back together with your ex, the most important thing is that they don’t repeat the same mistakes and repeat the same routine. That can only end as it began. Evil.

You have to make both of you forget all the bad things in the relationship and leave it behind. May he long for the good things they shared.

There is a new method created by Samantha Sanderson where she teaches you to enter your ex’s subconscious to make him accept his mistakes.

I already mentioned this method above. Once you apply it, you will make him come back to you thinking that he can’t let you go anymore.

If you want to attract him back and ignite the spark that used to be between you, watch this video to learn the secrets and techniques that will make him come back.

What you will achieve will not be repeating the same relationship they had, but creating a new, much stronger and deeper bond.

Here is the link to the video once again.

10) Your ex has been dating and drinking a lot

Heartbroken people often try to drown their sorrows with certain actions, in an attempt to forget about their ex.

Going out a lot is not necessarily the behavior of a person fully ready to positively navigate into their future.

Chances are your ex is trying to drink and party in an effort to get over you.

That brings me to my next point, which is what your ex does after all those nights out.

Dialing and texting drunk after a breakup definitely shows your ex is thinking about you.

Regardless of how you feel about your ex or how your ex feels about you, do not answer or answer the phone after 11 pm at the latest. Otherwise, you will be encouraging this harmful behavior for him.

If your ex really wants to express something important to you, he will eventually sober up.

11) Your ex is still there for you

Does he offer to fix things for you?

Do you feel confident that you can ask him for help for emotional, physical or financial issues, if you really need it?

It could just be because your ex is a nice person, who still cares about you. Or it could also be a sign that he still loves you, misses you, and wants to win you back.

In particular, the affection of men is manifested in their actions, more than in any other way.

12) His current girlfriend hates you with all her being

Rebound relationships usually include a lot of emotional discharge. This is so, because the person who just broke up hasn’t had enough time to process the break up, before meeting someone new and moving on.

As a result, your ex’s new girlfriend has probably heard too much about you.

I’m probably supportive of him, but since he can’t stop talking about you, he doesn’t like hearing your name in the least.

Of course, this is completely natural.

She realizes that if your ex really got over you, he wouldn’t be thinking about you all the time and talking about you.

When your new girlfriend really hates you, it’s because she’s probably trying to earn her place.

13) Your ex has very strong emotions about his breakup

The more extreme your ex’s emotional reaction to your breakup, the more likely it is that he will continue to have feelings for you.

Research from the University of Birmingham suggests that women experience more emotional and physical pain after a breakup. But men do not fully recover from pain.

Men take longer to grieve a loss.

While women tend to cry and really move on sooner, they often…