How to know if a man likes to make love to you: 20 signs

You’ve met a guy and after going on a few dates, you’ve found the time to be intimate.

Maybe you’ve already had a few hookups in bed and you’re starting to really like this guy.

You also notice his interest in you, but you still don’t know how to interpret it well.

“Is it just a physical attraction?”

“Are you really feeling something deeper?”

“Is it casual sex or are we making love?”

“Does he like to make love to you?”

It is very normal that you have many doubts, when you start a relationship with someone. You may like this guy a lot, but you still don’t feel the confidence to ask him certain questions directly.

The good news is that there are many ways to find out, without having to question him with words.

We put together a whole list of 20 signs, so you can finally know if a guy likes to make love to you.

Look for something tasty at hand to drink, and start reading, this is getting interesting!

20 signs to know if a guy loves to make love to a woman

1) He makes eye contact

Looking into your eyes while you are making love is a sure sign that this guy likes the intimacy he is having with you.

A man who just wants sex will probably look anywhere or close his eyes.

On the other hand, a man who is making love to you will show you through his passionate gaze.

It may be that he is hypnotized by you and you have stolen his gaze. I couldn’t take my eyes off you, while you enjoy what you are feeling together.

His look is lost in your eyes or it can be fixed and burning. Either way, the eye contact will be there and it won’t go unnoticed.

2) He says your name

We all know the story of a person having sex with another and telling them the name of their ex or someone they are really in love with.

Or he just can’t remember his name and does what he can to avoid that awkward moment and give himself away.

This happens and a lot!

But in your case, he has said your name, while they were in full action. You’re not just scheduled on his cell phone. It is in his mind and perhaps you are beginning to have a place in his heart.

Maybe he said it softly in a whisper or shouted it out with passion, during sex. You have already heard it many times or it has only been once, but this is enough. It certainly means that this guy has fallen for you and likes to make love to you.

And what’s the best thing you can do if you like him too? Return his name with a smile. Wink, wink…

3) He stays talking to you after making love

A man who doesn’t really care about you, having reached the climax, rolls over and falls asleep.

While a man who is emotionally and intellectually attracted to you will stay talking after making love.

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He will try to have deep conversations or try to make you laugh by sharing stories about his life.

That a man talks to you, after having relationships, is not something that is given to them easily. But if he likes making love to you, the conversation will flow freely and smoothly. You can be sure that he will want to share more nights like this with you.

Conversation in bed is also known to cultivate intimacy. So keep the words flowing.

4) He snuggles with you (“spoons you”)

Who says cause that love is just sex?

Human beings are the only mammals that enjoy sex and thus achieve an orgasm. This means that the very act of making love happens mainly in the mind.

So if he comes up from behind and hugs you so he can snuggle with you, you know he’s having more than just sex.

Showing affection, after having sex, is a clear sign that he is making love to you and that he likes it a lot.

5) He takes his time

Have you ever had an affair with a “Don Juan” who won you over, got what he wanted, and was on the other side of the door within five minutes?

At that moment you realize that you feel a little dissatisfied. Also somewhat regretful for having let you be used as a toy by a man.

But you’ve found a boy, who takes his time setting the scene, lighting candles and playing soft music. So, you can be sure that you are with a man who likes to make love to you.

He wants to make the most of every moment he shares with you in the bedroom. He wants time to pass slowly to enjoy together to the fullest.

6) He is attentive to your needs

A guy who is considerate of your needs is a person worth being with. A man, that you may not find every day.

Do you like passion in bed or are you a soft lover?

Either way, if he makes an effort to consider what you want out of a sexual encounter, you are dealing with a real man, who enjoys loving you. Mainly, if it means they have to have more foreplay.

If she’s okay with waiting longer for her own satisfaction, it’s because she really enjoys you getting yours.

7) He listens to you

If you say stop, he slams on the brakes and stops. If you say go ahead, he goes and puts all his care into it.

A man who makes love to you will really listen to you, and not just be carried away by his little soldier.

Being with a man who refuses to listen, because he’s too busy thinking about himself (or football) is probably the worst sex you can ever have. Do not let that happen.

If he really cares about you, he will make sure to listen and pay attention to what you say and what you need.

8) Asks you questions

If he expresses curiosity when it comes to your sexual desires, it means that his mind yearns for you to connect with him.

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Instead of simply seeking his own physical satisfaction, a man who likes to make love to you will also seek your pleasure.

This means that it will ask you what you want.

Either to achieve the climax, or for you to enjoy the process to reach it.

He may ask you if you want things to go faster and stronger, or if you’d like him to slow down for a slow and smooth arrival.

Asking yourself questions to enhance the experience means he’s not just in it for him, but he’s in it for you too.

9) He shows interest in you

Does he ask you questions about yourself, your family, your ambitions, goals and career aspirations?

That means that, in addition to the fact that he likes making love to you, he wants to go even further in the relationship.

If you just want to have a good time and nothing else, you are only interested in the quickest route to get there. Then you’ll want to find your way out.

A guy who is happy to make love to you is likely to stay after sex, ask you questions, and express a genuine interest in your life.

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10) He seduces you

If your partner really wants to be with you, he will do everything possible to make you feel attracted to him and want him.

They can be gestures as simple as buying you a bouquet of flowers, making chocolate fondue, inviting you to dinner or writing a romantic poem on a card. These are direct ways to seduce and charm you.

It is not just about caresses or looks. There is a range of possibilities and he knows how to use them.

11) He kisses you

First their bodies come together, they caress each other and then their lips melt into a deep kiss.

While it’s nice to have a little bit of everything, the most revealing are the passionate kisses during the act of love itself.

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If he takes the time to kiss all over your body, especially your erogenous zones and not just your mouth, this could be something really serious.

On the other hand, if the best you get is a couple of shakes and a see you later, you’re just a booty. And he a disappointment.

12) He compliments your body

The way he admires your beauty during sex is an indisputable indication that he loves making love to you.

He claims that you are beautiful, sexy and loves your body.

He wants to connect with you on an emotional level, by making you feel adored and admired. Clearly, he’s making love to you.

However, be sure to distinguish between genuine compliments and those that are just trying to get you into bed.

You deserve more than a man, who only captivates you with words, and then breaks your heart, after sex.

13) Stays the whole night

A man who is delighted to make love to you will stay by your side all night.

He really has had a great time and feels the emotion of sex together on the surface.

He will want to continue with your warmth, for the rest of the night.

He certainly doesn’t see you as a download, nor as a trophy.

He wants to hold you and caress you until you fall asleep. Or, perhaps, he wants to talk, until dawn, because he is in love and you have fascinated him.

14) He makes you breakfast in the morning

Hot coffee. Egg. Tomato and avocado toast. Yes please!

After having a fun and hot sex session, are you in the kitchen preparing breakfast?

This is a step further from the previous point. After sleeping together; they wake up to share breakfast to the sound of “I loved last night”.

He shows you that he not only wants to feed his sexual appetite, but that he’s going for a little more, impressing you by flipping the pancakes and serving you the fresh coffee.

Enjoy it, eat it and drink it all.

15) He smiles when he is with you

Smiling is the most revealing non-verbal way to communicate desire, happiness and love. In fact, it is one of the most seductive facial expressions, when one flirts.

Does he smile before, during and after sex?

Your man doesn’t necessarily smile all the time, but he does when he’s enjoying sex with you.

Show your appreciation for you, your body, and the wonderful experience you are having together. She is making love to you.