How to deal with disobedient children

He doesn’t obey. And now? You can’t take it anymore draw attention of the little one because he does the opposite of what is asked. Psychologist Suzy Camacho, from São Paulo, teaches how to transform him into a safe and flexible child.

How to stimulate?

Feel empowered to educate. Set clear rules and boundaries and demand that your child respect them. Up to age 7 is easier, but don’t give up hope if yours is older. It is also important to create a strong emotional bond with the child. Make the most of every minute you have with her to give her affection and attention. No need to shower her with gifts or spoil her too much, just play. That way, the little one won’t have to disobey to get her attention, and when you need to impose a rule, he’ll understand easily.

What else helps?

Creating a routine reduces anxiety and increases child safety. Open and clear dialogues are also important, always using age-appropriate language and a firm tone of voice. When giving orders, look the child in the eye and tell him what he must do one time. Wait a few minutes and check if she did what you asked. If not, accompany her during the execution of the order, always very calmly. Repeat the exercise until she gets used to performing it. Orient the nannies to act in the same way to maintain coherence in education.