How are men who enjoy making women suffer?

Some men enjoy making women suffer because it makes them feel powerful. They are patriarchal men: they need to feel important and special because when they look into the eyes of a woman in love they look bigger, more macho, more handsome and more desired. They look twice their natural size.

Virginia Woolf said that women see them like this, and they look in our eyes as if they had a virtual reality mirror. They look better people than they are.

There are men who need to feel necessary and some of them also want to feel essential. And not just for one woman, but for several: their ego swells and their virility grows to the extent that they manage to conquer and bring many women to their knees. And since in many countries women are free, how do they manage to bring us to our knees? With the love.

How to subdue women in 3 easy steps

Men have at their disposal thousands of women willing to suffer for love in exchange for a few crumbs of affection and attention. They are rich, they are privileged: there are so many women in need of love, and they know well how to conquer them and have them at their feet.

They learn the technique from the movies: always start with romantic speeches so that she believes that you are naked and opening your heart. You have to mix sweetness with passion, seem honest and sincere, show yourself vulnerable or seem so, and pretend to be in love like never before in your life. Then they add a few promises for the future, a lot of good sex… and there they have them eating out of their hand forever (or until they get fed up with suffering and leave them).

We have to take care of ourselves a lot cut your losses with any man who needs to submit us through love to have us whenever they want in their arms. We cannot be available for when they get bored or another plan fails, we cannot let them hurt us with one of lime and another of sand. Alone, that they stay alone, with no one to care for them, with no one to love them.

The profile of the patriarchal man

Patriarchal men learn from childhood that women’s weakness is in love and that there is no other way to subdue them than by making them suffer for love. They enjoy doing damage and you have to run away from them.

When they are left alone, with no one to care for them, then maybe they will be able to rethink what kind of relationships they have with women. Or maybe they just change their strategy to get women in love and delivered to romantic passion. Meanwhile… how to recognize them to avoid relating to them?

They are competitive. Their world is so hierarchical that they are continually comparing themselves to others. They are constantly trying to climb or stay in the top ranks. Although it is exhausting to always prove that one is a macho, they obey these gender mandates without questioning whether or not it is worth it. There is no ethical and moral problem for them to lie, cheat, betray and tease women. They don’t care if women go crazy or sick for love. Actually, seeing them fall makes them feel very powerful. They are strategists. If one of them rebels or turns away, they redouble their efforts so that she will be excited again and surrender to their arms, knowing that later she will cry desperately for a little attention.

They know how to create anguish necessary to build a toxic relationship based on dependency and suffering. And they know how to escape when the ship sinks: they wash their hands of it, and they look for their next victim. They are incapable of loving and caring because they only think about their collection of conquests and their needs. From them they obtain love, care, attention, sex, financial aid or even bank loans. They choose loyal, dedicated women and devoted, but, above all, they go in search of submissive and long-suffering women capable of forgetting themselves to fully love their beloved. They seek understanding and compassionate women that they put up with masculine dishonesty and that they resign themselves to their misfortune of loving suffering. They need women to watch over them and educate them, punish them and forgive them, contain them and repress them. They prefer women with low self-esteem and high emotional dependence. The patriarchy teaches them that women must be tamed and treated badly so that they respect them, so that they surrender at your feet, melted with love. They have very low self-esteem and a very big ego. They need applause, admiration, recognition and desire from women. They need to arouse the envy of the most macho. They applaud not only for the number of women they are able to hunt, but also for their ability to keep them begging or demanding love. They think they are good people even if they treat their partners badly. They believe that love is a war in which anything goes and that they have the right to emotionally and psychologically destroy women to make them more docile and vulnerable. They believe that what is normal and natural is that they sacrifice themselves, put up with and put up with everything while they neither give up, nor sacrifice themselves, nor suffer in the slightest.