Honesty can be cruel and harmful

There are people who pride themselves on always being “very” sincere.
They tell you everything without you asking them.
That they cannot “shut up” anything.
They are people who believe that sincerity is a virtue.
And it is.

But sincerity not requested.
Sincerity without empathy.
It is pure cruelty.
It is pure selfishness and arrogance.

It’s trying to impose a world view on someone that they may not need.
That maybe he doesn’t want to.
Or that it can do a lot of damage.

If you before hoisting sincerity.
You don’t put yourself in the other person’s place.
You are not able to think about the effect of your words on others.

Maybe it’s that you don’t care about the other.
Maybe it’s that you don’t care exactly what the other person may feel.
And the only thing you want is to “look” good.
It is being able to say that I am always sincere.

That I am always sincere.
Putting you like this a pin.
Picking up a medal.
Using another existence to polish yours.

We cannot use sincerity without tact.
Careless.
We cannot use other people to consider ourselves better people.
We can’t because it’s not fair.

Before showing off our sincerity.
We should work our emotional intelligence.
You should remember the common, the collective, humanity.
We should assess when it is necessary and when it is not.

When are we needed and when are we not?
When it is better that we do not give our opinion.
Just because.

Sometimes the best thing you can do for someone else.
It is listening to her in silence.
It is not to crush it.
It’s not telling him: I told you so.

It is not making firewood from the fallen tree and not throwing it into the fire.
Sometimes shutting up is also wanting.
Accompany without fanning the drama.
Without delving into the wound.
Be.
No need to constantly remind yourself that you are still with your sincerity.