Female ejaculation exists! And we will tell you step by step

Thousands of women around the world have experienced in your own body ejaculation, a reaction of the body that occurs during sexual arousal and may or may not be accompanied by an orgasm.

Ignorance and prejudices are your great enemies, but learn to stimulate the area where it occursalone or with a partner, it can be very rewarding… whether you finally manage to ejaculate or not.

A hidden pleasure: female ejaculation step by step

Take it like a game. You may never ejaculate, but your sex life will not be impoverished for that. Discovering new areas and pleasure techniques always enriches.

1. Talk about it with your partner

Show him this article, Be well informed about how a woman ejaculates, especially so that she is not surprised and may have an unpleasant reaction. In consultations and workshops I have met many women whose first ejaculatory experience was involuntary and the partner reacted so badly that they never got it again. When trying again, there was a block that did not allow it.

2. Get psyched up

Nothing will happen to anyone if some urine comes out mixed with the ejaculated fluid, nobody. In the male ejaculation sometimes traces of pee are also dragged and nothing happens for it.

3. Practice how to ejaculate alone

Before starting, place a protective sheet on the bed or some towels. Dildos or vibrators can help you, although I recommend using these last ones until you have it well under control.

lie down on the bed, semi-sitting, with the back well supported on cushions, legs open and knees bent. Check that there are no tensions.Insert your ring and middle fingers or index and middle fingers in the vagina and search the anterior wall, pressing towards the belly, for an area with a different roughness (this area is known as the “G-spot”). l Stimulate her in different ways when you locate her to appreciate the sensations.Start with gentle strokes and gradually increase the intensity. Learn what, how and when you like it.relax the vagina when you feel an orgasm coming on. Sometimes when we want to achieve a faster or more intense orgasm, we squeeze the vagina. But this way we constrict the prostate and it costs more to ejaculate.When you feel the need to urinate (and this is the point that may cost you the most), help your Skene glands (the “female prostate”) by even making the small gesture of letting urine out. Don’t hold back.

4. Experiment as a couple.

Lie on your back, with your legs open and knees bent towards your belly. Ask your partner to kneel next to you and insert the ring and heart. Let him massage gently at first and, observing your reactions and listening to your instructions, try and change the pace. The specific technique to make a woman ejaculate consists of moving her fingers back and forth, as if she wanted to say “come.”

Female ejaculation: myth or reality?

Women have a prostate and its function is to ejaculate. Yes, ejaculate. Does this mean that women also ejaculate? What it means is that our body is capable of doing it.

So, do all women ejaculate? Female ejaculation is a topic that continues to generate controversy even in the scientific community, which has invested little in studying how a woman ejaculates, since it does not have, at least apparently, a determining role in female fertility.

And it is that, if female sexuality is a great unknown, let alone ejaculation in women. What is known is that some women –few in our culture, almost all in others– during the sexual climax ejaculate a transparent and slightly whitish liquid (the color of a glass of water with a splash of milk).

Some can fill a glass with the ejaculated fluid and others pour just a few drops that mix with the lubricating fluid.

The problem, the controversy and the great doubt that blocks this function, which can be very pleasant, is the question of whether it is urine or not…

Today this simple question about the female ejaculate composition It has not been answered correctly by the scientific community, which continues to ramble between yes, no and sometimes.

Urea can also be found in this fluid in greater or lesser quantity. And it is precisely the proportions between the prostatic components (which are recognized because they are also produced in the male prostate) and the main component of the urine that brings the laboratories upside down, which have not yet agreed on the amount of residual urine makes this fluid can no longer be considered ejaculation.

I don’t understand laboratory analysis, honestly, but when a woman (man or whoever) urinates, the smell is unmistakable, and the color is yellowish. When a woman ejaculates, there is practically no smell. Can sometimes mix with urine because of its anatomical location and then it smells a little like uric acre.

The female prostate and the G-spot

Perhaps knowing where our prostate is can shed some light… Distributed along the walls of the urethra is a set of glands that resemble a bit of a natural sponge. If we put our fingers in the vagina and touch its anterior wall, we can appreciate an area with roughness or ridges. We are touching the prostate.

This area of ​​the vaginal wall is called the G-spot (of Grafenberg, its “discoverer”). Personally I prefer not to use this name because between Bartolino (the one who gave his name to the glands that secrete lubricating fluid); Fallopian (the one who won the tubes that connect the ovaries and the uterus) and Skene (who wanted to colonize our prostate) I believe that there are too many men passing their names around our genitals.

The G spot is not a point, since it can measure up to 5 cm in diameter according to the woman. Too big to call it a point, right?

Not all women have it the same size or in the same exact place, but it is there and you can see that it is easily located. The prostate, when stimulated, fills with fluid until it reaches a point, if the woman manages to relax, in which she ejects timidly, gushing, splashing, or like a stream from a fountain. It will depend on the woman, the moment, the stimulation or the couple, in case another person provokes it.

It seems that the final section of the prostate runs inside the urethra, a factor that could explain the presence of urine in the composition of the ejaculated fluid. The possibility that the fluid first enters the bladder before being ejaculated is also being considered. There is still no agreement on this point.

In any case, before putting on a face of circumstances, it is useful to remember that the liquid ejaculated by men shares the same duct in the penis as urine, so traces of urine may also be present in male ejaculation… and this possibility does not seem to arouse much rejection among the majority of the heterosexual female population.

Why don’t all women ejaculate?

The answer has a lot to do with individual, collective and scientific ignorance. about this natural function. As the prostate is so close to the urethra, when the first thickens a lot, in the second the sensitive nerve receptors are activated that send the signal to the brain: “Attention, pressure on the bladder.”

Since we don’t know why this suddenly occurs in full arousal, the brain translates the message as “Bladder full. You have to pee.” And then, many times annoyed by those sudden urges when we are having the best time, we close ourselves off and nothing comes out. It may even be that we get up to pee and it costs us. Because it wasn’t urine, it was prostatic fluid.

The next time you suddenly feel the urge to urinate in the middle of sex, relax and enjoy a liquid that in other cultures is considered a precious and even healing nectar.

But don’t worry if you don’t get it. In our culture we have spent thousands of years with this blockade and sometimes it is not so easy to overcome such deep-rooted convictions as the one that only men ejaculate.

Is ejaculation an orgasm?

It can be very pleasant or not so much, but technically, although both concepts are mixed in the scientific community for some strange reason that the writer cannot explain, they are not the same:

Orgasm is the climax of oxytocin production It acts mainly on the cervix and causes the emptying of the erect tissue of the clitoris, among other things.Ejaculation is the emptying of prostatic fluid.

Both reactions can go together or not: we can have orgasms without ejaculating, ejaculate without orgasms, or have both simultaneously.

Scientifically proven or not, all women who ejaculate can corroborate it.

What is the use of a woman ejaculating?

It is interesting to know how the prostate is formed during the gestation period. Around the tenth week, a process of sexuality takes place in the bodies of the embryos in which, from the same tissue, the urogenital sinus, the male prostate develops in some bodies and the female prostate in others.

The function of this ejaculatory gland in men is very clear. It participates in the ejaculation of semen by producing a liquid whose mission is to transport and provide a means of mobility for spermatozoa, feed them and neutralize vaginal acidity. That is, it has a primary function in reproduction.

Therefore, as scientific interest in the sexual organs has traditionally focused on guaranteeing human reproduction, resolving the physical dysfunctions that may interfere with it, we can understand why this organ is well known in male bodies.

What is the use of an ejaculatory gland in a woman’s body? This is a question for which science still has no answer. And it probably won’t until the “female reproductive system” stops being studied and it becomes integrated into the mentality of all scientists that what they are investigating is the “female sexual system.”

In fact, today, women continue to come to the sexuality workshops we conduct who say that, due to an impressive innate ejaculatory capacity, gynecologists for whom I have no educated adjectives have removed their prostate under the diagnostic label of “coital incontinence”.

From perspectives diametrically different from this one, answers to this question continue to be sought. Some unproven bets suggest that could be helping the male prostate in its support for sperm by providing more PSA (Prostate Specific Antigen) and FAPE (Prostate Specific Acid Phosphatase).

The endocrine functions of this gland are also being studied, which is already known to produce serotonin, a well-known antidepressant.

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