Everything has its moment and every moment its opportunity

Everything has its moment and each moment, in turn, opens the door to a new opportunity, the one that you have to know how to see and not miss just because others don’t like it. Because happiness is, after all, an act of courage and responsibility that also requires us to understand that, sometimes, what at first seems like a problem can also be an opportunity.

Albert Einstein used to say that among difficulties lie the best opportunities.. Now, we also know that it is not easy to apply this very optimistic approach. Fear, insecurity or even pressure from our environment make us believe that it is not our time yet, that we must wait a little longer in our “calm and safe” comfort zone.

Currently, society and even many of our institutions are going through a complex period of crisis. Maybe this moment was inevitable, we don’t know, but what should not be inevitable is our surrenderour dejection.

It is often said that life sends us gifts wrapped in problems. So, The only thing we should do is dare to remove that dark coating from problems. and discover what opportunity it offers us.

True opportunity and how we perceive reality

For many, there is never the best time for almost anything.. They postpone so many things that they even postpone their happiness for that day when they achieve this and that, or when they finally achieve that next thing.

Now, we must take into account that Those who postpone too much stop living in the presentbecause happiness is not programmed in an agenda. Happiness is created, it is intuited, it is felt.

The way we perceive reality is therefore a determining factor.. There are those who focus only on the problems until they fall into the pit of victimhood, where the darkness will never allow them to see any way out. Others, on the other hand, exercise the muscle of responsibility and courage and are able to see real opportunities in the same problems.

It is this instinct that whispers to us that it is better not to take risks, that it is better to leave things as they are, that it is better not to risk. However, we must keep in mind that with every lost opportunity, with every moment not taken advantage of, another overwhelming dimension appears to be taken into account: frustration.

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How to learn to see opportunities

Today, in any specialized bookstore we find multiple manuals that explain how to make moments of crisis our best opportunities. It is common to use Steve Jobs as an example. and, especially, the challenge of having to face his dismissal from Apple. Far from giving up, far from becoming a victim, he created, for example, that animation giant called Pixar.

On the other hand, many of us, without reaching the same level that Steve Jobs reached, are also facing some difficulties at this time. Therefore, we are sure that The strategies that we describe below can help you, at least, reflect on them and take them into account..

Keys to knowing how to intuit your opportunities

We already know that our main enemy, the most daily one, is fear. It is, therefore, time to take control of our emotional health. and understand that life, happiness, happens beyond the line of fear. Just one step beyond the comfort zone.

We must realize that A problem is not in “external circumstances” but in our mind. Try to see it as a learning opportunity and not as something that is beyond your control. Another way to approach difficulties is to stop seeing them as “islands” where we remain isolated and enveloped by the haze of despondency. Understand that a problem is nothing more than a PROCESS. If we are fired from work it should not be the end of the world, but rather the opportunity to make a change, to start a new dynamic.There are complex moments for which there is no solution. If we are not happy with our partner, for example, we are facing a difficulty for which there is no remedy but there is an end: goodbye. We are therefore facing a new process with a beginning and an end that in turn opens the doors to a new life cycle and, therefore, to a new opportunity to be happy. But this time, alone.

To conclude, it is very possible that our best opportunities are happening right now and at this moment. We just have to allow ourselves to be a little braver and let ourselves be carried away by enthusiasm, bravery and courage. Because Remember, there is nothing more expensive than a missed opportunity…

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