Erotic massage: hot tips to spice up the moments for two

Massage is already pleasurable and comforting if done in the conventional way. When it has a more intimate character and with a sexual purpose, however, it can be, above all, a bonus to strengthen the bonds between the couple. Next, check out tips with everything you need to know to learn how to do erotic massage and spice up the relationship!

How to do an erotic massage?

There are several types of erotic massage, such as tantric massage. In all of them, pleasure and relaxation are sought prior to sex, with precisely sensual movements, ideal for this purpose.

Before starting the erotic massage, you need to plan so that all the details are perfect. After all, keeping the atmosphere engaging and seductive from start to finish is essential for unforgettable moments.

Fátima Moura, sex coach, creator of Chá de Lingerie and a pioneer in Brazil in courses and lectures in the area of ​​sex and sensuality, remembers that it is important to keep in mind that the purpose of this type of massage is to excite and not relax. In addition, it is an intense exchange of energy. You should only do it when you are feeling really good. If it’s a “more or less” day, leave it for another time.

Another important tip from Fátima is not to interrupt contact as soon as you touch your partner, so as not to cut off the exchange of energy.

Erotic massage step by step

1. Lay the person to be massaged with their back on the duvet.
2. Kneel between her legs, pour some of the oil into your hands, and gently slide them together to warm them up. Then bring your hands closer to your partner’s body.
3. Start by going up the outside of the legs, with circular movements to the knees, and come back with the hands on the inside, not forgetting the feet.
4. Raise your hands to the thigh region to the groin (without touching the penis/vagina), always going up on the outside and coming back on the inside.
5. Follow with the massage, with the same circular movements, on the chest and arms.
6. Strategically place fruit and some beverage to use during the massage. Drip some drink on his/her body and lick it gently. Caress the face, the hair… Take the opportunity to give the fruits that are separated. Use the imagination.
7. Pour some oil on your breasts (or chest) and massage the other one with your body.
8. As you slide your hands down his/her body, kiss his/her breasts (or chest), his/her belly and continue lowering your lips until you reach the pelvic area.
9. Finish the massage by starting an oral sex with calm and delicacy and abusing sensual movements with the tongue.
10. As you feel your partner’s arousal rising, it’s time to enjoy the benefits of massage by transforming hot foreplay into pleasurable, prolonged sex, with the energy vibrating high above.

Although erotic massage has the same structure for him and for her, men and women have different erogenous zones and arousal can be heightened when these distinctions are taken into account. See below for special tips to take your massage to the next level and increase the pleasure between you and your partner.

Massage for men: special tips

• Start the foot massage, sitting between your partner’s legs, who should be lying down facing you. Place one of his feet on your breast and massage your fingertips, until you slide your hands gently down the inside of his leg, up to his groin, without touching his penis.
• Then sit on his lap and make him sit too so that you are both facing each other. She wraps her legs over his hips. With the help of a moisturizing candle or an edible oil, massage his chest with intense circular movements.
• To add to the arousal, keep up here with a robe or any other piece of clothing that you can keep ajar, further teasing your partner. Sit in the Indian position, with your legs crossed, and lay your partner’s head on them so that you can make eye contact and his view is of your partially revealed breasts and face. This is a great time to offer fruit or any other element to sharpen the palate. Then move your hands down your chest or legs, still not touching the penis, so that your breasts are touching his face.
• Using edible oil is a simple way to increase pleasure. Apply to partner’s abdomen or any other region and then remove with tongue.
• Don’t be afraid to have fun with accessories. Feathers, special candles and gels can be used to drive your partner wild with small touches and movements.
• With your partner lying on your stomach, apply a massage gel or cream to your breasts and back, alternating the massage with your hands and your body.
• Take advantage of the special oils for the intimate region and finish by massaging your partner’s penis with gentle but intense movements.

Massage for women: tips to get the touch right

• Start with your partner’s back. Sitting on your hips, apply oil all over your spine and massage in circular motions, going through your arms and down to the base of your spine.
• Sit further down, on your partner’s calves or thigh, and take the opportunity to massage her butt, moving down to the inside of her legs.
• Then, turn your partner so that she is lying on her back, massaging with circular movements from the belly to the breasts, kissing and caressing the nipples at the end.
• With your partner lying in the previous position, take one of her legs and massage her feet up to her thighs. Then repeat the process with the tongue, and can even end with oral sex from then on.
• Position yourself between her thighs and start massaging her inner legs until you reach her hips. Use your fingers to play with your partner’s labia majora until you reach the clitoris, while the other hand massages her breasts.

Step by step bath massage

1. Start by preparing the environment. Rose petals, incense and scented candles will give a romantic and seductive atmosphere to the bathroom.
2. If you have a bathtub, prepare a bath with oils and salts that help with arousal through smell. If you don’t have it, no problem. Invest in soft sponges and creamy foams to lather your partner.
3. Strategically place fruit and a drink near the box to use during the massage. Turn the water to a pleasant temperature, turn on some sensual music and start by undressing your partner.
4. Unbutton his/her clothes calmly and take the opportunity to caress the parts of the body that are revealed while following the rhythm of the music.
5. Spread foam over his/her body from head to toe, with the help of the sponge. Take the opportunity to use the fruits or drink at this time.
6. Run your hands over their body, then use a sponge to lather their entire body. When you get to the private parts, stay a little longer, to give more pleasure.
7. With your hands, remove the foam from his/her body and dry him/her with a soft towel. With the mood of seduction in the air, take the opportunity to let your imagination flow for whatever comes.

Accessories and products to use imagination

Get inspired by this selection of products to make your moments of intimacy and pleasure even more exciting:

1. Aromatic candles, at Época Cosméticos;
2. Liquid vibrator, at Miess;
3. Fragrant petals, in Americanas;
4. Massage gel, at Aromatic Spells.

No erotic massage will be complete if you don’t invest in special products and accessories for the occasion. You can find just about everything in today’s market, so whet your imagination by strolling through the sex shops. You will always find some surprise.

Tips to spice up erotic massage

Sex coach Fátima Moura explains that a wide variety of touches can be used during the massage. You can use your hands, body and a multitude of accessories. Fátima also remembers that, before starting the massage, there is a whole preparation that must be carried out. From the moment you choose where you will perform it, you must prepare the environment in order to awaken the 5 senses. Check out other secrets you need to know to spice up the massage:

• Put a duvet on the floor and some rose petals (remember to use artificial petals so you don’t risk staining).
• Surround the place where the person to be massaged will lie with pillows, to maintain the cozy atmosphere. Also put a pillow for the head support, so that the person can see you while you massage.
• Place some scented candles around the place (be it the bedroom, living room, etc.).
• Have at your fingertips, during the massage, a tray with some red fruits and glasses with a noble drink (white wine, champagne, liqueur etc.) to sharpen the palate.
• In sensual or erotic massage, there is not a single point or only a few that should receive attention; the whole body should be massaged.
• Choose light, new age music. It will create a whole atmosphere to involve the couple.
• Don’t forget to creatively use the accessories and products that exist to make the game more fun. Oils, candles that melt (but don’t burn), edible creams, feathers, erotic data, and other items can make everything more interesting.
• Add more oil to your hands as needed, but always keeping one hand on the person’s body. To apply the oil, turn your palms up, keeping the back of your hand in contact with the other’s skin.

3 videos to learn and become an expert on the subject

Remember to enjoy the moment and enjoy. Fátima Moura suggests following her instincts and not worrying about forgetting something, just surrendering. Massage has a time to start, but not to end. See more ideas you can enjoy together:

Massage with a candle that does not burn, by Mouth to Mouth

The Boca na Boca sex shop brings a very cool tip for those who want to include a surprising joke at the moment. The candle that doesn’t burn when it melts turns into a cream that can be used to massage your partner.

Extreme Pleasure of Man, by Prof. Regina Racco

Despite still being seen as taboo in society, the prostate is a strong male erogenous zone. In this video, Professor Regina Racco talks about the massage located in this region and how the couple should proceed.

Tantric massage to improve your relationship

See tantric massage techniques that combine delicate movements with a position of great comfort and intimacy, causing incredible sensations.

Use all the techniques combined with your imagination to strengthen the bonds between you and the person you love. Erotic massage is more than a way to relax your partner. It’s also a way to show affection, love and interest, keeping the flame of passion in your relationship burning longer.