Emotional intelligence: how to act from calm and awareness

I like to think that there is a parallel world in which souls that have left this world coexist. I like to think that the new ones have something of those of you who are no longer here. I like to hold on to the idea that there is something or someone near me that brushes me with fragments of them every day.

It’s just that, a way to revive those who are gone, those we see in the sky, those who illuminate our lives every night. This is so, we need to feel his presence outside of useven though we know they will never return.

The truth is Every person who left our life is a star in the sky., a star that will never ever go out. Because it is in us where the memories of what they meant and what they will always be remain.

I look up at the sky and try to see you among so many stars, I search among the shadows for your lost image.
I draw your face in the clouds that I see passing by, traveling aimlessly and, guided by the moon, I ask:
Where are you?
And immediately my chest shakes, giving me the answer with a shed tear that makes me understand again: You are not here, you remain in my heart.

How to write a story when it’s not over yet?

When a person leaves, our life paralyzes, our heart skips a beat and we become blocked. However, If there is a way to begin to continue writing our story, it is with tears and hope.

When someone dies, they don’t go alone. “He takes part of your soul” to make his wings, in this way he manages to fly with you.

His departure teaches us that It is not death that scares us, but what is truly torturous is living with pain to know that no matter how much we cry and how much we suffer, we will never see them again.

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That’s scary, very scary. It is a pain that goes deep inside and that we do not know and we do not want to get out.. Because, after all, it is the way in which we now have them present every day, so we cling to it for, at least for a few months.

I still need you, I will never stop longing for your presence

We make the mistake of thinking that over time it will stop hurting and that can make us feel guilty. The loss of a loved one always hurts, so don’t tell us lies.

There is a long path to travel, you have to hit rock bottom, you have to cry and feel deeply that something has brokenwho has left and which represents a before and an undesirable after in our lives.

However, although we never stop feeling loneliness and pain due to the death of a loved one, we can recover our life and our will to live.

Nevertheless, Despite all the pain and sadness, our daily lives continue, and we have to accept his departure, understanding the meaning of death and life. It is not easy to recover and admit that there is part of our life that has been left unfinished, the months go by and we continue to remember those who are not there, feeling and thinking about everything that was left pending.

Hug those who are not there again and be reborn

When life separates you from a loved one, the memory of their smile is the best way to move forward. Every day of our lives we would give anything to feel those who are not here again, to have you a few more minutes with us and to say everything that now drowns us.

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But We can overcome it, we can find a way to live with suffering and longing.. The best way to move forward is by reinventing hugs, turning them into memories and addressing each day those who are no longer here. Therefore, our best tribute will be to add joy to our days, making his memory a part of our happiness.