Don’t beg love from those who only think about themselves, from those who don’t give a damn about you. Never do this! Anyone who makes you feel inferior and indifferent in the face of a situation doesn’t deserve your attention. You only deserve someone who, with affection and attention, makes you feel really important and worthy.

Love needs to be shown, but never begged! Begging for love is the most faithful proof that the relationship is long gone.

Who deserves your love is the one who says little, but does a lot. Those who seek you only when they need you don’t deserve you, but that person who is by your side when you need help the most. You deserve your love who, without expecting anything, takes that feeling inside you and makes you feel that you are important.

In the end, who really deserves you, is that person who is even having the freedom to choose to leave.

There is not lack of time, there’s lack of interest

Do you know why people say that there is no lack of time, but lack of interest? Because when you want, dawn turns into day, a boring Tuesday turns into Saturday and a moment turns into an opportunity.

also say that who waits a lot, is disappointed and always suffers. Therefore, we have to keep in mind our real expectations and know that: not expecting anything from anyone and expecting everything from ourselves is what really matters.

Because hopes and expectations are often the basis of emotional failures and, therefore, of the perception of others’ attitudes as lack of interest.

When we perceive what others do or say as lies, we obviously feel pain. An emotional pain that at the brain level behaves in the same way as physical pain.

In this sense, it is important to make an important note: we must give psychological discomfort the importance it deserves. It wouldn’t occur to us to ignore strong pangs in the stomach or a strong and constant headache.

Why should we ignore emotional pain then? We can’t just let time heal, we have to work on the pain and extract the appropriate lessons from it in the same way that we would stop drinking hot chocolate if we discovered that it is the cause of our stomach ache.

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This is very important because socially there is a false belief that psychological distress is a sign of weakness and that, at the same time, time will heal the wounds without the need to disinfect them, nor to apply dressings or care to prevent them from bleeding.

Valorize yourself. First of all, please yourself.

Dedicate time to the people who deserve it and who make you feel good. Don’t beg attention, friendship, or love from anyone. Whoever wants to be with you will demonstrate his intention, sooner or later.

So if you are experiencing a situation of distressing emotional injustice, remember:

– Don’t look for those who don’t look for you and don’t answer your calls. Don’t look for someone who doesn’t miss you. Don’t miss those who don’t seek you. Don’t write to those who don’t write to you, don’t submit to the punishment of indifference that becomes clear in the face of ignored messages or groundless silences.

– Don’t wait for those who don’t wait for you, value yourself and stop begging and begging for love. Because, as we said, love must be shown and felt, but never begged for. Keep your affection for those who want you and understand you without any judgment.

– And especially, don’t forget the value of your smile in front of the mirror, love yourself and value yourself for everything you are, not what someone who doesn’t deserve you makes you think of yourself. Love yourself and understand that the fact that someone treats you badly doesn’t mean you shouldn’t do the impossible to surround yourself with people who do you good and want you well.

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