Does he care about me? 15 signs that prove you are very important to him!

In the old days, if the guy just hugged you while you were walking down the street, that was reason enough to be sure he cares about you. These days, it’s a lot harder to know if a man cares, or if he’s just being nice and nice.

If you’re thinking, “Am I important to him? Does he care about me?”, maybe he’s just a nice guy, then it’s impossible to know.

These 15 proven signs will answer those questions:

1. He knows how to listen to you and always gives you advice.

This signal is difficult to identify. Many guys have improved their ability to pretend they’re listening when they’re really thinking about something else or don’t give a damn what you’re saying.

The trick is to see if he gives you any advice. If he offers realistic solutions to your problems, then he really paid attention. He wants to see you better or free from any problems.

It shows that he cares.

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2. He still remembers things you don’t really care about these days.

Not every guy will remember that you can’t stand olives on pizza and will take them out for you before serving. If he remembers the little things you didn’t even know were important to you, then he really cares.

3. He is very happy when you are happy.

This is a super easy sign to identify. If you’re extremely happy you got that job or promotion you wanted so badly, and he’s just as happy as you are, then he cares about you.

When your happiness becomes his, that’s when you’ll know he truly cares about you.

4. When he needs advice, you are the first person he turns to

Men don’t usually seek advice. Most of them just want to deal with problems and doubts their way.

That said, if a guy is looking for your opinion and advice, he really cares about you and what you have to say.

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5. When you seem to be upset about something, he cancels plans to stay by your side.

There are times when women get stuck. They can’t handle something and end up freaking out.

If your man sees this and cancels any important commitments he had to help you, then he cares about your health and your personal life.

6. He doesn’t feel ashamed to be with you when he’s around family or friends

Friends and family are very important to men. If he thinks you’re ready to step in and meet the most important people in his life, you are now one of the most important people in his life.

7. He always uses the word “we” instead of “I”.

When he talks about the two of you together, instead of saying things like “you and me”, he uses the word “we”… he cares. When he starts seeing the two of you as one and starts saying it openly, he just proves how much he cares.

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8. He asks about your day and really pays attention when you start counting.

Asking about the other person’s day is kind of a habit thing. “Hi dear, how was your day?”… and he quickly changes the subject.

But if he’s asking questions and showing concern about certain things that happened, he really does care.

9. He always tries to fix things after a fight.

Some guys get into an argument with you and then disappear and don’t give a damn about making things better.

If he’s trying to talk things out with you and suggests solutions, he really cares about you and the relationship.

10. He gets along very well with his family and friends.

If your friends and family are really important to you, he’ll think they’re important to him too.

If he invites himself to do things with his family and makes an effort to get to know your friends, he definitely cares about you.

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11. He sacrifices his own happiness to make you happy.

This doesn’t mean that he only lives for you and forgets about all the things he likes and that make him happy.

This means that if he’s not too excited to see the movie you’re dying to see, he’ll go anyway. Things like that show that a guy cares about you.

12. He is understandable.

Men who care about you will understand your situation and your side. Even if they think you’re being unreasonable (or even a little crazy), he’ll sit down and talk to you until he understands what it is that’s bothering you.

A boy who does that is a boy who cares a lot.

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13. He is honest with you.

No matter what, he’s honest with you. A person who cares doesn’t lie just because he knows the truth hurts.

He tells the truth because he knows he must if he wants a successful relationship and lying is worse in the long run.

14. He is not possessive.

Many people—especially younger girls—have a habit of thinking that possessive behavior means a guy cares a lot about you.

This is not true.

A guy who cares about you wants you to have your freedom. He’s going to want to see you hanging out and having fun.

He will not try to control your freedom.

15. He is not selfish in bed.

This signal is one of the most important. Even though he looks cute and gentle out of bed, if he doesn’t care about your pleasure, he doesn’t care at all about you.

Sex is important in a relationship. It’s simply a way of seeing how much someone cares about you.

If he tries as hard to pleasure you as you try to pleasure him—then he really cares.

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