Stay with someone who allows you to be yourself. From head to toe, body and soul, for a lifetime. May it not forbid you to be happy. Don’t make yourself a puppet, don’t live on appearances. That respects your beliefs.

Let you do silly things. That makes you laugh out of nowhere, those laughs that hurt your belly, really cry. Someone you can cry in front of without fear and don’t have to hide in the bathroom. Be patient with the obstacles that come your way. Don’t think it’s bad if you misspell the relative’s name and that he still finds your forgotten and clumsy way funny. May it not make you feel guilty. Don’t judge you when you’re starving and want to eat a hamburger at 2pm or midnight (who says you can’t eat calories at night?). May he not only love you for what he sees, but also for what he feels coming from you.

Someone who allows you to be stupid and smart at the same time – because no one was born knowing everything. May you feel safe when you are by your side. Let you sleep all day, if you feel like it, whether it’s Saturday, Sunday, Monday or Friday. That I can see your beauty even without brushing your hair. May he always hold your hand, whether crossing the street, in a difficult situation or on top of a building. May you be friends with your friends.

Don’t try to change your habits. May he choose to be with you, regardless of the day, time and place. May he take care of you under any circumstances and don’t mind washing the dishes and setting the table. Let him accept the differences and grow with them.

Stay with someone who is willing to learn from your mistakes, and especially from your successes. May you value the love you have for those close to you and may you learn to love them as your own family. Stay with someone who is always by your side, in good times and bad, who doesn’t care what others say or think about you, who loves you with a love without barriers, without limits, no matter how many obstacles appear in the way. . And let it be all that, everything you deserve and a little more.

Love someone willing to accept you and who doesn’t want to change you. That you don’t like to fight. That you prefer to talk. May it be your best friend, your companion, your advisor. your lover. Your madness and your judgment. May you see beauty even in your flaws. Respect animals and nature. Let him not make vows of love, if he cannot fulfill them. Have attitude. Who wants to grow old by your side, knowing that one day you will be fat, wrinkled and a stutterer.

That respect you. May I do the impossible for you. Because at the end of the day, loving isn’t “I’m going to do this for you because I know you want to”, it’s “I’m going to do this for you because I want to. Because I want to see you happy. Because I want that for myself too.”

Love is only real if it is shared. This is the purest truth.