Dating a younger man: a possible option

What happens when he is ten years younger than you? Pass, pass, nothing happens. Of course: you will have to face the social prejudices who see the age difference between young women and older men as natural, and unnatural when it is the other way around.

We live in a society that he is shocked when a woman decides to mate with someone younger than her. Divas are forgiven because they are actresses, models or singers (it is understood that they have their eccentricities and whims). They are seen as ambitious youngsters who want to take advantage of your money.

Women who pair up with younger men are still being prejudged.

But flesh and blood women are denied the right to choose a partner younger than themselves because is always associated with a sexual pathology, that is, to the possibility that she is a woman who needs a lot of sex and looks for it in men with more sexual power.

Women’s right to free love

There is still a double standard that makes us believe that women we pair up to get a social position, guaranteed income, economic stability and the possibility of founding a happy family. This double standard also makes us believe that men join women for sex and care, and that our sexual desire is much less strong than theirs.

That is why one of the main claims of feminism is that women have the right to pleasure, we have the right to enjoy and we have the right to mate with whoever we want.

However, the patriarchy continues condemning women who choose from freedom, without fear of what they will say, simply thinking about their happiness.

They call them selfish to make them feel guilty and to be afraid of being demoted in their category. They are told that real women are not looking for young men, that they should look for their partner in their age ranges or, in any case, in the higher age ranges.

The sociodemographic characteristics of a person should not prevent love.

It is very difficult to break with this social rejection but it is very important to do so because our freedom to pair up with whoever we want.

We are the ones who choose our partners and what matters is not age, the color of the skin, the religion, the nationality or the social class to which our partner belongs.

What really matters, the only thing that really matters, is that she is a good person, that she treats us well, that she cares for us and is honest and that we can enjoy love with her.

It is very important that the prejudices of others do not paralyze us or destroy our lives: the most important thing is Free ourselves from the fear of what they will say, stop judging others, and live our life as we want.