Continue or break with everything?

Dedicated to all those people who have suffered for love to limits that we should never let others cross.
There are many moments in life when you have to decide whether to continue or break with everything., we have no choice but to decide. Love is possibly one of the most complicated topics to make decisions about. We feel divided between what our heart tells us with its incessant beating that we cannot stop or control and what our reason recommends to us.

That’s why, when the heart beats strong but also bleeds, cries and suffers, perhaps it is best to say goodbye to that love. Because we are like a ship adrift if we don’t love ourselves first. If we lose our self-esteem because of the treatment we receive from someone we thought loved us, we enter a great ocean with no way out and that… we cannot allow it.

The moment to break with everything

Although that guilt thing is just a way of speaking, because no one can harm us as long as we don’t allow it. Because the love of our life is ourselves. Sometimes you have to say goodbye to a love, When that love hurts, it breaks our soul, it does not make us happy or it does not respect or understand us.

There are times when that love does not know how to be by our side in bad times; It confuses us and upsets us… we must say goodbye to it even if it breaks us inside…

Love sometimes cannot be explained in words, can only be felt and only understood by anyone who has ever experienced it. And perhaps we can only humbly trace its meaning with a few words. Love comes like a whirlwind full of illusions, emotions and feelings that make us feel happy, alive, renewed…

It is burning ice, it is frozen fire,
It is a wound that hurts and is not felt,
It’s a dreamed good, a present bad,
It is a very tiring short break.
It is a carelessness that gives us care,
a coward with a brave name,
a lonely walk among the people,
a love only to be loved.
It is an imprisoned freedom,
that lasts until the last paroxysm;
disease that grows if cured.
This is the child Love, this is his abyss.
Look what friendship he will have with nothing
who in everything is contrary to himself!

-Francisco de Quevedo-

Say goodbye to love

Sometimes everything turns upside down. If on many occasions we do not even understand ourselves, if we are full of contradictions, Trying to coordinate with a partner can be a difficult path.Yes, very difficult… and when it begins to break our stability and our inner peace we have no choice but to say goodbye, break with everything…

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Because I love myself, because I esteem myself, because I respect myself and I need the respect of others. Because I feel sure of what I want and especially of what I don’t want, that’s why I say goodbye… I have to break with everything and like in other moments of life everything stays and everything passes…

The experience remains, the lesson learned and the pain passes. Because time heals everything and because what it is about is being happy and although simple and very overstated, the saying of “better alone than in bad company”.

That’s why learning to love ourselves is the first thing to not lose our way, so that they don’t treat us like puppets in love. Don’t break your heart, your soul and your mind for a love that really isn’t. Love yourself.