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Before giving up, be willing to love as much as possible. Before choosing to leave a love, make sure you’ve pursued with someone everything you could walk. To love is also to have the courage to insist.

True love is not the one that seems to be the strongest or the best, but it is precisely the one who is most willing to change and ready to make things happen. The successful love is the one that gets toughest when it takes a hit and not the one that never seems to go downhill.

Many people will say that you can’t make a difference where love has already failed, but the real thing is that those who say that are actually terribly afraid to try. They don’t want to believe that two people, despite their differences, can get along well. Love does have its tangles, but it can be easy when you want.

We have to learn that progress only happens when we are out of our comfort zone. After a while, more mature, we will regret not those things we did, but those that went unnoticed or those that we could have done differently.

If you feel like everything is getting weird between you, explore simple love more. Dream together about what is important. Find out what are the easiest ways to do it together and try to walk in that direction.

Give up or insist? Abandon or try again?

It is not easy to deal with failure, but it is recommended. always restart. Succeeding in something that doesn’t feel peaceful doesn’t matter either. Most of our failures happen when we minimize how much we’ve been in someone’s company and fail to value small successes.

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If all couples learned to look less at the size of problems and started looking more at what they can do together to solve or minimize them, we would have fewer people giving up on each other.

The most important thing is to know where you are going.

If you haven’t defined well what you want, it will probably fall into some plan. Much of the stress that the couple is victim of is precisely because they do not think about how to build something together. Thus, looking for fulfillment in the company of the other is a reality that we can no longer live.

Happiness today is depending on money, employment, stability, personal goals. When we realize that despite missing something, we belong together. The art of living with someone is to eliminate problems, but to grow with them. We cannot expect happiness to be a place to reach, but a way of not standing still. Love is not rewarded for what it will achieve ahead, but it is really in the dedication to make it happen. To give up without loving is to give up on yourself.