10 Signs You Should Stop Looking for a Boyfriend

Do you constantly log into different dating apps, talk to everyone on social media, book a lot of dates and all this seems to get you nowhere? Perhaps the best thing you can do is stop, rest, and be alone for a while.

To facilitate this decision, the awesome.club gathered some signs that indicate that the time has come to slow down the search for the ideal pair, at least temporarily.

He enthusiastically talks about something while you seem to be sleeping. This could hardly be called dialogue, mainly because if he asks a question you don’t understand and you always have to ask him to repeat it. By the end of the date, he might even blame you for being cold or boring.

Maybe a guy like that just isn’t for you. But if indifference spreads to other spheres of your life, it might be worth taking a moment to reflect. A lack of desires and interests can be signs that something is wrong with you, or even signs of depression.

For many people, going to the cinema or restaurant alone is something super strange. That’s why many people always accept the invitations, just to not spend an afternoon alone. But it is important that you understand why you accepted an invitation.

Psychologists recommend that you start taking an interest in yourself, whether it’s a hobby or learning something new. A person who likes himself thinks it’s normal to go to a concert alone, for example. Also, these people don’t date just anyone; they know it’s better to be alone than poorly accompanied.

Even if you’ve had a few failed relationships, maybe you shouldn’t treat all men the same. Thinking that all men are the same only reinforces some dangerous stereotypes in our society. Also, if you ever go on a date thinking this way, the man will feel the tension and won’t want anything to do with you.

Difficult financial situation, health problems, pressure at work and studies: these are all topics best avoided on a first date. We all struggle and go through stressful situations, and no one likes going out to dinner and having to listen all night about other people’s problems.

Even if you broke up with your ex a long time ago, if you can’t stop thinking about your previous relationship, your situation is probably a dead end. But if you really want to start dating someone else, put all that in the past once and for all.

Of course, you may still be sad, but remember that people are different from each other. If you unconsciously seek out men who look like your ex, you will always face the same problems.

You arrive at the meeting and don’t even know the person’s name? Maybe this is a sign that you’re seeing too many people. On Tuesday you go out with Miguel, on Wednesday it’s André and on Thursday you have a dinner scheduled with Vitor. It is no surprise to anyone that at some point they will get confused and change the names, which is bad.

Psychologists recommend that you get to know a person well, their interests and hobbies, and then go on a romantic date. Also, remember that quality is always better than quantity.

According to psychologists, we choose our partners unconsciously. In general, we are attracted to the same type of man, and we’re not just talking about physical appearance.

If you notice an unhealthy tendency to choose boyfriends, maybe you should stop looking, at least for a while. Talk to friends or a psychologist and when everything is calmer, flirt again.

You tend to anticipate the actions of men and therefore consider yourself an expert in male behavior. Perhaps you simply notice the same character traits in different men, and this often leads you to jump to conclusions.

The development of a relationship is influenced by the behavior of the two. Maybe your always the same reaction always leads everything to the same end.

It’s one thing to feel support from someone, it’s another to have someone totally in control of your life. In order not to fall into someone’s hands like this, it’s important that you also stop feeling like you need a shoulder to cry on all the time.
Mature and independent people are more likely to find peers with whom they can build harmonious relationships based on equality.

As soon as things look like they’re heading to a nice place, you decide to end it all.

Psychologists call this fear of relationship. Of course, the experience we have at home, with our parents, counts a lot and shapes our fears and our unwillingness to share our space with someone. But this is a problem that must be solved with the help of a psychologist.

If you decide that you need a break, use this time to learn something new, travel or even continue studying something that is related to your career. When we feel good it’s much easier to find someone.

And most importantly, don’t let the period of solitude get too long. Psychologists say that loneliness is harmful not only to our mental state, but also to our physical health.

Sometimes it’s more important not to act rashly and take a little time for ourselves before starting something serious with someone. Do you agree with this statement?