There are some men who are always exchanging one woman for another, collecting conquests. Usually, such seducers have their own tricks and rituals. But make no mistake: these guys almost never want a lasting relationship. If you want a stable relationship, you’d better run away from men like that.
So that you do not fall victim to the inveterate conquerors, the awesome.club gathered some clear examples of men not looking for serious relationships. Learn to identify them and know what you can – and cannot – expect from them.
1. During the first three days, do not call
You agreed to talk on the phone, you spent two days waiting for the call and you already decided to forget about that guy. But if on the third day you get that call you’ve been waiting for, it’s best to think about it a lot. Professional seducers consider the third day to be the ideal time to get in touch.
2. He has above average self-confidence
Men like that know that self-confidence is their most powerful weapon. The method works even if he has no real reason to “find himself”. The main thing is to convey the idea that he is an authentic male, with everything under control (although he has no idea how to control things).
3. They are able to flirt with other women in front of you just to get your attention
It’s a very old and well-known trick, but it still works. When a man is popular and successful with women, he feels like a winner. Obviously, he won’t get very far, as all these tricks are just to make you even more crazy about him. Pay attention to how he behaves with you when you are with friends. You’ll notice when he’s just trying to captivate other people or if he’s interested in someone else.
4. Tries to touch you whenever he gets the chance
There is a difference in the touch of a man who is really in love with you and one who is interested in just one night. Interestingly, in the first case there will be less physical contact than in the second. The man who is just looking for fleeting fun has more confidence to make physical contact in any situation, whether appropriate or not.
5. He says exactly what you want to hear. Like in a fairy tale
If, in a single day, you heard from him all that you never heard from other men in all your life, beware. The seducer’s task is to provoke a whirlwind of emotions so that the woman loses her mind. It is already proven that a “normal” man has no interest in making excessive verbal manifestations.
6. You met in a very unusual way
If you have the feeling that everything seems out of a movie, because everything happens in a very unusual way and causing a lot of “wows”, maybe things are unfolding in a premeditated way by the man. The most important thing for a seducer is to provoke a lot of strong emotions so that you fall into his arms.
7. He is always well-groomed
Always impeccable appearance, clearly well thought out clothes and a pleasant aroma of expensive perfume. In general, “ordinary” men don’t care so much about the physical aspect. But we need to say that you don’t have to worry if the perfect look doesn’t come with the other points, of course.
8. He gives the impression of being a very cultured and educated person
Again, just because you’ve met a man who has above-average knowledge doesn’t mean he just wants a one-night stand and nothing more. You should be careful with those who boast of their knowledge and, at the same time, take attitudes typical of people with limited thinking. After all, a true connoisseur of poetry is capable of reciting more than one poem.
9. He is mysterious
Since the beginning, many women are attracted to mysterious men. The less we know about them, the more we become involved in the atmosphere of secrets. Seducers are well aware of this and use the fact to their advantage. If you are inundated with a barrage of questions about yourself, but you haven’t heard a word about your interlocutor’s life, you are probably facing a spy or a very secretive guy. Or, still, you are dealing with a person willing to manipulate you.
Bonus: how to behave so as not to be a victim of manipulation
Remember that our warnings are just advice, as each situation is unique. Especially since women have a weapon that doesn’t usually fail: intuition. And if she’s warning you that something isn’t going well, listen to her. On the other hand, if you’re consciously just wanting a one-night stand, then relax and play.
And you, do you have strategies to discover a man’s real intentions? Leave your comment!
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