8 Things You Should NOT Tell You About Your Wedding!

While our friends are often our biggest supporters, there are some things you should avoid telling them about your marriage.

Because? Well, in some cases, it would just violate your spouse’s privacy, and in other cases, could tarnish the way people view marriage… which can be harmful in the long run.

No matter what, be careful when you share information about your marriage – lest they happen to turn against either of you in the future.

See below what you should avoid telling your friends about your wedding:

1- Sexual relations

We’ve all talked to our friends about sex… and it’s okay to share a few details. However, if your partner has something very private about them, be careful what you share with your friends.

Sure, we all have “that friend” that we can reveal things to, but that’s not all the things you can reveal to them, especially if your spouse isn’t around to defend themselves.

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2- The couple’s fights

Of course, our friends are there to listen to us when we confront our spouses, but if you go into too much detail, be prepared for your friends, rightly or wrongly, to judge your spouse.

If you are on the verge of divorce, it is something else, but still, be cautious, otherwise you could create a worse divorce case.

If you are in an abusive marriage, please share this with your friends. But in most cases, it’s good not to divulge all the cruel details, and if you do, keep it among a few select friends.

3- Salary of the couple

This is complicated. Some of my friends and I have openly shared such information, but these are very close friends and only a few of them.

Overall, I think your income and that of your spouse should come between you.

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4- Mental health problems or learning difficulties

If your spouse is an advocate and writer on bipolar disorder, then – share it! But if your spouse doesn’t feel comfortable sharing this information, you shouldn’t share it either.

I’m not advocating keeping mental health issues quiet or “stigmatizing” any more than they already are, but before sharing that your spouse has anxiety, depression or whatever the case may be, you should get their permission first.

He/she needs to be comfortable knowing that others may want to ask questions. Personally, I expect your spouse to be open, but many people aren’t, and in that case, it’s a matter of respecting your spouse.

5- Family drama

I’m talking about any deep, dark family secrets your spouse’s family may have. Those are the things you need to keep silent for sure. Simply put, they are not your secrets to tell.

6- Sexual problems

If your spouse has sexual, erection, libido or anything else difficulties, it should be between the two of you. Look for a medical solution together!

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7- Past

Has your partner had a dark past? Let him/her decide who gets to know or not. keep these things to yourself.

8- Gossip

If your spouse says bad things about your friends… do you really want them to know? Unless you’re planning on getting a divorce, don’t do it! This will only create wounds and disappointments.

Of course, there are some close friends we can always rely on, but be careful who you choose!

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