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8 Signs that show that there is a solid connection in a couple

British writer Tim Lott, author of several books on relationships, says that there are 3 important aspects in a successful couple: communication, respect and trust. He considers trust the most difficult trait of all. But he guarantees that, even if, in the past, one of the members of the couple has made a very serious mistake, you have to believe in the relationship and fight for it.

We, from awesome.club, we want our followers not only to love their partners, but also to have a life together of respect and trust. Here are 8 signs that your relationship is going great.

1. You are not afraid to be (or show) who you are

According to psychologists, there can be both “imaginary” and natural relationships. The most demure behaviors are adopted in imaginary relationships and we use them to appear that we are perfect — a typical case is when we are starting to go out with a person and want to show our more “tidy and well-behaved” side🇧🇷 In natural relationships, you are not ashamed or afraid to be yourself and you know that your partner understands that you are not a robot and also wants to feel relaxed and at home.

You can walk around the house talking on the phone with your pants unbuttoned, eat oranges in bed and still feel like your loved one feels absolutely fine about it.

2. You share the details of your day

You come home after a long day at work or after a meeting with your friends and you want to share some new information with your partner. Doesn’t try to hide that a guy in her office made her upset, for example.

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Sharing the details of your day builds trust and harmony in the relationship and makes not only be seen as a companion, but also as a close friend. According to researchers, it’s also important to show interest in what’s going on in your partner’s life.

3. You can open up about your past pains

You may have had issues with your parents, toxic relationships in the past, or had a difficult surgery. But the fact is, we can’t share these things with a person we don’t trust. Psychologists say that in such cases it is important to separate the past and present, and not compare your partner with someone else.

Also, if you are open to discussing your experiences with the person you love, you gain a new level of confidence. But it’s important not to be brutally honest and to be careful not to hurt the other person’s feelings.

4. Do you share a bank account or know the password for the card

Sharing a bank account can be a sign of trust and happiness, according to couples, as it isand they are open to discussing financial issues and reaching an agreement, which offers many benefits to the relationship.

This makes couples more likely to face problems instead of thinking about ending the relationship, according to Shaunti Feldhahn, an American researcher graduated from the famous Harvard University.

5. You don’t try to control yourself

Lack of trust issues can ruin relationships quickly, especially if you become a control freak and start calling or texting your partner every minute. Thinking that the other is cheating on you and wanting to search your cell phone indicates that there is no trust in the relationship.

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On the other hand, when you give the other room to breathe and let go of controlling them, it means that you are not only satisfied with your partner, but also with yourself.

Psychologists also say that it is possible to improve this type of relationship, but for that you have to take emotional risks and learn to trust the other.

6. You can easily leave your devices open

Social networks can provoke jealousy. Facebook and Instagram can be the reason for fights and even breakups. But imagine you’re walking home and he asks you to hold his phone, letting you see his WhatsApp. Only someone who has nothing to hide can do that. If you’re able to leave your devices open while you’re with your partner, there’s definitely a good level of trust between you.

7. You feel safe not only sharing positive emotions, but also negative ones.

Everyone will go through times when everything is going wrong. If you’re open to discussing this with your partner, it means you trust them. When you overcome the fear that the other might hurt you by judging you, it means you feel secure in the relationship.

You’re not afraid to talk about your true feelings, and even when you feel offended, you’re not afraid of losing the other person, because you both know that breaking up is not the solution. This can be especially important for women to feel secure as they realize their relationship is evolving, say psychologists.

8. Are you able to admit if you are wrong and share responsibility?

Do you believe it’s possible to trust a person you love, even after a terrible mistake? Do you have your own confidence indicators? Please share your experience!

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