It’s hard to win back an ex’s love but it’s not impossible. These messages will go a long way in initiating contact and letting you know what’s on your mind and engaging them in a conversation again.

Start by remembering fun and happy times in the past that you had together. Also think about what your ex was good at and ask for advice on that. Finally, if you’ve made mistakes, confess them honestly and sincerely. Need inspiration? The following 50 messages will help you know what to say:

50 messages to win back the love of an ex

1. Messages to remember good times with your ex

Remind your ex of happy times with these message suggestions.

– I saw a field of daisies today, and it reminded me of how much you love them. Hope you’re well.

– What was the name of that restaurant on _________ street where we went when we completed 1 year of dating? I remember the food was delicious and the atmosphere was great. I was talking to a friend of mine but I forgot his name.

– I watched that (movie) again. Remember how many times we watched it together? It made me miss the old days with you.

– I finally got to try that Mexican restaurant you always wanted me to go to, and it was amazing, as you said! I miss our adventures.

“I’m finding that the memories of our time together seem to be on my mind a lot lately. I miss you.

– I just heard our song. Of course it made me miss you.

“So much seems to remind me of you lately.

– Remember when it was just us against the world? I miss that time.

– I really miss cheering for our team with you. Remember how crazy we were?

– Today is my mother’s birthday. Thank you for helping me get through the pain of losing her.

– My mom/dad adores you more than ever. She/he was asking about you today.

– Well, I ran out of gas and had a little unexpected adventure today. Remember when that happened to us?

– I passed in front of the store _____ and I remembered when people used to go there to buy clothes… I hope you are well.

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– I visited my family at (location) yesterday. It reminded me of all the fun times we had together there. They all asked about you.

“I couldn’t let your birthday go by without wishing you a great day. We had a great time on your birthday last year.

– I smelled freshly baked cookies today and instantly thought of you.

– I finally organized all the photos on my phone. I saw a lot of good things from the two of us that got me through some good times.

– The (summer, winter, etc…) has arrived! I thought of you today because I know how much you love this time of year.

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2. Messages to start a conversation with your ex

These messages will help pique your ex’s curiosity.

– I have been thinking a lot lately about _____.

– Can you help me settle a debate?

– ___ was asking about you, and it made me think about how you’ve been doing.

– I saw you on Instagram. You look beautiful!

– I really like your new hairstyle. I saw it in your profile picture.

– I know how stressed you get during exams. Take care.

– Are you going to the ______ party today?

– I didn’t see you at work today. I hope everything is alright.

– I need to confess something to you.

– I’ve been thinking a lot. I need to tell you something.

– I just taught a ___ class, and it was phenomenal! All I could think was, “I wish (name) could see me! He/she would be so proud of me! ”

– Have you ever wished you could go back in time?

– I was in your neighborhood today.

– I had breakfast with an old friend of yours yesterday.

“I had a strange dream about you last night.

“I just did something that reminded me of our first date.

– Can I share some of my work with you?

– Do you still like coffee?

– (Send photo.) Do you remember where it was taken?

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3. Messages to ask your ex for advice

Let your ex know that you remember what they did well with these text messages and take the opportunity to ask for a hand 😊

“Hey, could you lend me some of your expertise on______?

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“I’m getting ready to renovate my apartment, and you’ve always had great style options. Would you mind giving me some suggestions?

– Would you mind helping me set up my new computer? You’re good with technology and, as you know, I’m definitely not hehehe.

– I could really use your help with ___ if you’re willing.

– I bought a new camera. Could you give me some tips someday?

– Which video game would you recommend for my brother/sister’s birthday?

– Do you have any advice on how to choose a good car for me? I’m thinking of buying one.

– Can you help me solve this crazy math problem before I lose every hair on my head?

– What book would you recommend me to read this winter?

– Do you have the contact of that mechanic/painter/landscaper you hired last year?

– Do you have any good suggestions for a series worth watching?

– I have an interview coming up. What should I wear?

– You always did the best _______. Can you give me the recipe? I want to make it for an upcoming party.

“I’m in big trouble and I’d love your advice if you could spare some time.

“I have to make a presentation for work and I’m a nervous wreck. It helps me?

– Any advice on asking my boss for a raise?

– Can you help me write a resume?

– Would you mind reading a document to me to see if I made any mistakes?

– Do you travel a lot. Which car rental company is the best?

– Could you give me advice on how to deal with an annoying coworker? You always know exactly what to say.

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4. Sorry/I miss you messages for your ex

Use these ideas to let your ex know you’re sorry and want to reconcile.

– I know I made a mistake. If you decide to give us another chance, I’m willing to change.

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– I ruined it. Pardon me?

– I’ll be honest… I miss you madly.

“I don’t know why I broke up with you. It was the biggest mistake of my life.

“My insecurities made me lose you—the love of my life. If you give me another chance, I promise to treat you with the love and respect you deserve.

– Hey! I wanted to give you space and time to solve my problems. But I want you to know that I miss you so much.

– I miss that beautiful smile of yours.

“I’m ready to move on, if that’s what you want, but I’d really rather be with you.

“I’ve had time to reflect and be honest with myself lately. I just wanted you to know that I’m sorry.

– The single life is not for me. I miss you every day.

“I’ve been reflecting a lot lately and I want to thank you for staying with me for so long. I didn’t make it easy.

– You always made me feel special. Thank you for that.

“I will always have a special place in my heart for you, whether we’re together or not. Take care.

“I’ve had time to reflect and be honest with myself lately. I just wanted to make sure you know how sorry I am.

“Hi, it’s been a while, hasn’t it? I wanted you to know that I thought a lot and I see things very differently now. Let me know if you want to meet and chat.

“Honestly, I should never have let you go. I’m very sorry.

“I can understand if you don’t trust me anymore, but if you let me, I’ll show you how I’ve changed.

– Would you like to go out for coffee and talk? No pressure. I’d like to give you the apology you deserve.

– I always smile when I think of you. I’m sorry for putting us through so much.

– They say: “live and learn”. I learned a lot about my flaws with our breakup and I would love to live with you again. Would you give me one more chance?