In the joy of a new love, it seems simple show your love to the loved one. After years of being in a relationship, however, many couples fall into a rut and one (or both) always feels they are not being valued enough.

Don’t let the day go by without you declaring your love to your partner. Follow these 6 caring steps to show your partner how much you love them!

1- Start with small things.

Small attitudes make a big difference, if done with kindness. Your partner wants to know that, at the end of the day, he or she is the one you are thinking about. All of the following actions can be done with little or no money:

Suggest a walk together.
Turn one of the rooms in the house into a dance floor and invite him/her to dance.
Camp in the backyard.
Read to your partner in bed.
Go to the gym with him/her. Some couples prove that the sex after physical activities is great.
Have ideas together for romantic vacation and write down the details so you don’t forget.

2- Progressively, increase.

It’s nice to mix the little things with more meaningful actions. These are more work and cost a little more money (though not a lot), but they will be well worth it once your love vibrates with joy.

Team up with your in-laws and ask for help planning a surprise party.
Redo the first date, the first kiss, or the night you met.
Compose and record a romantic song (can be more romantic or a little funnier).
Create a booklet with the story of the beginning of your relationship.

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3- Spend time with your partner.

This is, perhaps, the least used, but strongest way of show love for someone. Turn off your cell phone, television, computer, radio and sit together so that you can enjoy each other’s presence.

Being with your husband or wife obviously gives you a chance to serve the other, so take advantage of the opportunity.

Go out together at least once a week. Kids, busy schedules, and apathy can get in the way, but the two of you should try to be alone for dinner or a movie at least once a week.

These moments will rekindle the flame of love between you.

4- Talk about your love.

Simple, clear communication will let your partner know how much you love them. Speaking from your experience is a way of sharing what you feel with the person you love.

You can say, “It still makes me sick to my stomach when I see you” or “I still think about you during my day, and when I think about it, I smile.” Say what you prefer, as long as it’s sincere.

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5-Remember that actions speak louder than words.

Don’t say anything, do something. It bothers your partner when you say you’re going to do something and you never do. When your word lacks initiative, it loses its value, and so your partner starts to lose some confidence.

Don’t make excuses. They may be true for you, but for your partner they are just excuses.

Own it when you do something wrong and try to do better next time. Your partner will notice.

6- Remember what love is.

Love is an act of its own accord, not a warm feeling or an expression of experience. Although love is different for each person, and each person expresses it in a different way, love often calls for personal “sacrifices”.

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Think about the last time your partner made you smile. What did he/she do to make you feel like the luckiest person in the world? What can you do to make them feel that way too?

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