5 Proofs That We Don’t Meet Anyone By Chance

Many people say that every encounter in our lives happens by chance. Well I disagree. In this world, nothing happens by pure coincidence. People are destined to cross our path for a reason, and no matter how small their role in our lives, they all teach us valuable lessons.

Throughout our lives, we meet people from different cultures, religions, ethnicities and backgrounds. Some of them stay with us forever and have a greater impact on our lives than we could have imagined the first time we met them.

Others cross our paths without us realizing it and we barely remember them. Nonetheless, each of them has a different purpose to promote our development.

For example, there are those that make us happier and encourage us to pursue our goals and dreams, and teach us to improve more and more each day, personally and professionally.

On the other hand, there are people who teach us the difficult things and that it takes a lot of strength and mental courage to endure and overcome all the obstacles, problems and pain that life brings us.

It is undeniable that the people we know can leave us happy and/or painful memories. They can offer us both incredible and unpleasant adventures. However, both are important because they contribute equally to the beauty and quality of this journey we call life.

Keep going down and see the 5 proofs of why we don’t know anyone by chance:

1. People who remind you of who you really are.

When you stray from your path and feel like you’ve lost your life’s purpose, these people are there to help you get things back on track for your happiness and success. They remind and encourage you to work hard to achieve your goals and avoid all the distractions that can make you stray from the right path.

They are always there to remind you of your skills, talents and strength. They also remind you of what is most important to you and motivate you to keep working on yourself and making progress. When you get stable enough to stand things, these people will go away.

However, while these types of people usually stay with you for a temporary period, they leave an eternal impact on your life.

2. People who encourage you to grow.

These people are like mentors who come into your life to teach you things that you have never thought about before or that you may have tried hard to learn for yourself but never could. They often teach you difficult lessons so they can feel like a hindrance in your life rather than a gift.

But in fact, with their hard lessons, they encourage your development and show your true self, point you in the right direction and give you the motivation you needed to become the best version of yourself.

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3. People who wake you up for life.

Have you ever forgotten your passions and stopped chasing your dreams? Every time you feel stuck in life, God sends these people to focus on your goals and dreams and take steps to encourage you to fulfill them.

They encourage you to never give up and motivate you to never stop dreaming. These people, for the most part, don’t stay in your life for long, but their great influence on you is undeniable.

4. People who ‘match’ in a space.

Some people are present in your life for such a short time that you forget about them as soon as they cross your path. These are the people you meet at the mall, at the cafeteria, at parties, on the bus, or even when you’re walking down the street.

You may share a few looks or words with them, and they may even add a small amount of positive energy to your life, but you never establish a deep, meaningful connection with them, but in a way, they teach you an important lesson.

5. People who come to stay.

Whether it’s a family member, a friend or your love partner, these people are rare gems in our life and hard to find, but they are the most valuable you can ever know. Of all the people you meet, these are the ones that have the greatest impact on your life.

They accept and appreciate you for who you are. They stand by you in good times and bad and lift you up every time you fall. They encourage you to do things you never thought you could do and they make you more aware of your worth and they go out of their way to see you grow. In general, they make your life much easier and better.

To find these people, you need to be patient. But once you find them, they’ll stay with you forever, and you’ll see that they’re definitely worth every second of the time you spent waiting for them.

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Don’t be afraid, because God is with you