What makes a man a good husband? What qualities and characteristics does a good husband have?

I spent many, many years investing in men who didn’t give a damn about me. I made the same mistake that many women make. I followed my heart, because that’s the right thing to do, isn’t it?!

What a waste of time!

But by some miracle, I got rid of the murky waters and delusional thoughts and fell in love and married the most wonderful human being on planet earth.

He’s always treated me well, and he’s the one who showed me how valuable I am. He treats me like a real woman.

Once I entered the next phase of life, marriage, children, and the responsibilities that come with marriage, I realized how painfully misguided I was in my twenties.

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And I see countless other women making the same mistakes I do over and over again. What a shame and what a waste!

We spend a lot of time chasing someone who doesn’t want to have a real commitment or we live trying to make something work with a guy who couldn’t even care about us, and we forget to consider what it is that we really want and need in a relationship.

If you want to marry a man who truly loves you, then you need to be able to recognize the qualities that make a man a good husband.

And these are some that I think are the most important…

5 indispensable qualities that make a man a good husband:

1. He is sensitive to your feelings.

Look, not every guy is Mr. Sensitivity. And most have a hard time understanding the emotional torrent that many women navigate on an almost daily basis. But he doesn’t need to understand your feelings to be sensitive to them.

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The fact is, sometimes you don’t make any sense, like when you’re pregnant or postpartum or just having PMS.

Sometimes your tears won’t be right. A good husband is not going to make you feel crazy, even if you are right now.

He’ll be sensitive to the fact that maybe your hormones are totally out of whack and that instead of an argument you just need a little extra love.

2. He is your teammate.

A good husband is not your boss. He doesn’t place demands or expectations on you or blame you for not meeting his expectations. He works with you to create a life that works for both of you, not just him.

3. He is emotionally open to you.

You can’t spend your life trying to break down emotional walls. This is exhausting and who has time for that?

A good husband will be open and transparent to you. Sometimes it’s not easy because many men aren’t comfortable navigating emotionally tense waters, but he’ll make the effort because he loves you.

Being single can sometimes be lonely, but nothing is lonelier than being in a relationship with someone who is always at a distance. Keep this in mind when investing in guys who can’t commit!

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4. He works to solve problems that come along the way.

Many women spend too much energy analyzing and trying new things to make a relationship even better, or to just be something that more closely resembles what they want.

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And when nothing seems to work, then they feel defeated. They wonder what’s wrong, why they can’t do it right.

The fact is, there’s nothing wrong with it, except for the fact that they picked the wrong guy.

The right guy will work with you. He wants the relationship to work no matter what. That’s what you do when you love someone.

5. He is emotionally stable

If he’s in the midst of a divorce, if he’s going through a midlife crisis or any kind of life crisis, he might not be the ideal husband for you.

To be a good husband, he needs to be, first of all, well with himself. If he’s not, you’re wasting precious time and that’s one thing you can never get back.

Final considerations: The only way to get what you want in life is to have a clear vision of what it is and what it will be like. I remember in my youth I knew that the guys I was attracted to didn’t have long-term potential.

Living with an emotionally unavailable guy is like living in a thriller… you have no idea what’s going to happen next!

A guy who disappears for days or doesn’t commit is not the type of guy who will make a good husband or father.

After clarifying your perspective, it’s important to take a look at your self-worth level. How do you feel?

What kind of love do you want? Do you think you deserve a man who treats you right?

The subconscious mind is always looking for validation. If you feel unworthy, you will seek out men who make you not feel good enough. It’s pretty distorted, but that’s how it works. So take a look at yourself and ask yourself why you are attracted to certain men.

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When you are able to rebuild your self-esteem, you will automatically stop chasing things that are bad for you and open the door to letting the right kind of love in.