20+ Etiquette Tips Every Guest Should Know

As much as some people classify the rules of etiquette as “freshness” or something unnecessary, the fact is that good manners say a lot about your personality. Knowing them influences the impression that the interlocutor, friend or future boss will have about you. The way of behaving in front of people shows the education and cultural level of the individual; that’s why it’s very important to know and follow the etiquette tips when we’re at other people’s houses.

we, from awesome.club, we are sure that our readers are polite and considerate. Even so, it’s always good to remember some rules of etiquette necessary to be a good guest. Practice leads to perfection!

It’s not recommended🇧🇷

Take food from home. It could be that the salad you prepared doesn’t match the party menu, or worse, it could match. In this case, two equal dishes will certainly lead to comparisons, which is not pleasant. Ask for the guest list. Owners usually pass on general information about the party (“only family”, “a few friends”, “co-workers”).

Ignore the dress code. When you’re invited to a themed party, don’t forget to think about your outfit in advance.

Arrive before the agreed time. That way, you can make the owners feel uncomfortable — they may not have finished preparing everything. According to the rules of good manners, the ideal is to arrive 15 minutes later, but not more than half an hour late.

Leaving the owners confused with their gifts. Maybe they don’t have a suitable vase for a large bouquet of flowers or they don’t like “random” things. If you decide to gift them with items of this type, use common sense. It is more interesting to give a small bouquet, a nice (and neutral) towel or a scented soap.

Failing to report your allergy or dietary restrictions. In this case, it is advisable to bring food from home.

Habits that reveal lack of education:

Searching for food in the fridge, on shelves, and elsewhere in the kitchen—unless the host has explicitly allowed this practice.

Playing with newborn babies without permission.

Trying to convince the birthday boy to open the presents. You cannot predict the host’s reaction and may make you feel embarrassed.

Wash the dishes. Only the most trusted people can help by setting the table. However, it is polite to offer help.

Move the air conditioner without notice. It is recommended to tell the owners that you are cold or hot, maintaining respect.

Fighting with your kids in front of others. If you bring your young child along and he gets agitated, talk quietly and in a low voice.

Give cooking tips unless the host asks you to.

Offer money for a broken glass or some other damaged object. It’s better to buy a new item and bring it in later to replace it.

Ask for the Wi-Fi password.

Stay up late. According to modern rules of etiquette, it is reasonable to leave no later than 11pm-12pm.

It’s unacceptable🇧🇷

Use the homeowners’ personal hygiene products. Attentive hosts often leave a few things that can be useful to guests. Before going to the bathroom, it is advisable to ask which towel is intended for guests. Use all the toilet paper. If you notice that it is running out, inform the owners, in a delicate way.

The rules of etiquette do not consider🇧🇷

Start eating before owners, as well as sitting at the table uninvited. Take some ingredients off the plate. For example, if you don’t eat onions, it’s better to refuse the salad than to take the vegetable out afterwards. Asking to reach for what is not close: salt, pepper, ketchup, etc.

Show everyone and argue over a dirty fork or a hair in the salad. In this delicate situation, it is preferable to ask them to change plates or cutlery, in a low voice and with respect.

Using the napkin improperly. When sitting at the table, place it on your lap and leave it to the left of your plate after eating. It is unacceptable to rub your nose with it.

Cut out bread and similar foods. They must be broken with hands.

Feed your children the same meal as adults, especially when it comes to exotic food. Owners may feel uncomfortable to see a child trying a spoonful of pate in blueberry sauce and spitting it out complaining that it didn’t taste good.

Put salt on the plate before tasting.

Tell everyone you’re vegan or on a diet. This is personal information. If you didn’t inform before (as we already recommended in this post), treat the issue discreetly.

Order coffee or tea before dessert. At other people’s homes, it’s best to put your habits aside and stick to the planned schedule, as anything that happens out of schedule can cause discomfort.

What guest habits are most inappropriate and embarrassing in your opinion? Do you consider yourself a good guest? Tell us!