1. Let’s take a while to commitnot because we don’t care or don’t want to commit, but because we protect our alone time like a lion protects its young: fiercely.

two. If we’re going to commit, we have to enjoy spending time with you as much as we enjoy spending time alone. The good news is that if we commit, we are completely yours. We are with you because we choose to be, not because we are alone or don’t want to be alone.

3. Sometimes we disappear from the map to clear our minds, think, exist only for a while. It’s not you, it’s us. Same.

4. We need to take individual vacationsbecause it’s a totally different experience when we’re traveling and exploring alone.

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5. Of course we want to take a vacation with you, but even so, we’ll need a day or two to go out on our own. While it might be easy to take this personally, it’s nothing personal. Serious.

We process our experience differently when we are with you versus when we are alone and one is not better than the other, but we want to have both.

6. We need our freedom and space like we need air. If you are a clingy, clingy, or even dependent person, you will be unhappy with us. We don’t want to hurt you by asking for our space, but it’s among our top priorities in any relationship.

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7. …But, the bonus points would be if we dated someone who had a sixth sense about time we need space and then we wouldn’t need to ask for anything.

8. If you interrupt us during our favorite activity, be prepared to face the ultimate consequence of total ice… at least until we finish the activity we are involved in.

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9. Although we can be quite involved in our devotion to alone time, when we are with you, we are truly with you. You are not someone we spend time with out of convenience, boredom, or loneliness, because we are never looking to meet those needs!

When we’re spending time with you, there’s really nothing else we’d rather do in the world.

10. No, we don’t always have to do things. We’ve been thinking alone in our room for a while, that’s enough activity for us.

11. We are highly sensitive to external stimulation. We can take the smallest energy shifts, and while this makes us a compassionate and empathetic boyfriend or girlfriend, it also means that We need you to tell us what’s going on with you.

12. if you are looking for someone independent with their own interests and life outside of a relationship, we are that person. Look no further!

13. If you need some alone time, we will be delighted to welcome you with such enthusiasm that you will find that we really don’t want to spend time with you.

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14. If we wake up one Saturday morning and say we need to leave town for a few days, don’t be alarmed. That’s exactly what we do sometimes.

15. A fun night for us would be if we read our respective books together in a comfortable coffee shop, existing in the same place but not having to talk or do anything.

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16. We are lovers, not fighters. We are too patient to end up fighting over something unnecessary. Of course, we may get into fights from time to time because it is unavoidable, but we will communicate with you too much to reduce the amount of times we get into any kind of verbal fight.

17. Of course, we may not like going to loud concerts, clubs or bars.

18. Our superpower is the ability to be somehow calm, no matter what is happening in our lives. It’s a gift you’ll love.

19. The most important thing to know about us is that our need for alone time It has nothing to do with our feelings for you. They are completely different things.

We love you no matter how much we enjoy our alone time. If you can understand this and not take our quirks personally, then you will find us as devoted to you as our devotion to being alone.