16 Ways A Man Acts When He Just Wants An Affair

Let’s face it: not everyone is lucky enough to have a reciprocated love.

And if you’re reading this, it’s probably because you suspect that he doesn’t like you.

And that he has no intention of changing his mind about it.

Surely you think that he is playing with you and that he is not really interested in you.

That hurts. A lot.

But at least by acknowledging him, you won’t waste any more time pining for him.

Or eternally wondering why he doesn’t feel the same as you.

Realizing this is not easy.

But there are signs in his way of being with you that help to give him away.

Here are 16 Telltale Signs He’s Playing You

Are you ready to find out?

1) He never wants to see you

If he plays games with you, it’s going to make it difficult for you to be together consistently.

One of the clearest signs of this is that he never wants to see you.

When you ask him out, he has a good (or not so good) excuse.

Or there are always more important distractions that prevent you from seeing each other.

He can even tell you “no” directly…

I’ll be honest with you: if he really likes you, he’ll go out of his way to spend time with you!

I’m serious, some move mountains for the woman they like.

If he never has time to see you, then he is not that interested in you.

If he constantly refuses, he may just be being nice so he doesn’t hurt you.

But if he goes further, he may just want an affair with you.

Another option could be that he already has a girlfriend. Have you thought about?

In that case, he would have no real time for you and would risk getting caught.

Save your time and your dignity and find a guy who will adore and respect you.

2) He constantly flirts with other girls

This is a basic key to realize if he is really interested in you.

Does he constantly go out to events without inviting you?

Do you share your number with other girls and don’t care what they text you?

Do you share your profile or upload content to your networks where you can tell that you are “lurking”?

Well, dear reader, this might be the time to stop trying with him.

A guy who really likes you will never flirt with another in front of you.

Since that will make him look like a bad person or disrespect you.

Surely you know what I mean. I’m talking about the real Casanova.

According to Dr. Dan Brennan of WebMd, the typical characteristics of a womanizer are:

He tries to seduce more than one woman He usually lies to achieve his goals He is too flirtatious
You have heard rumors about his “past” with many other women. He has a history of cheating.

If this doesn’t suit him, it could be a case of a narcissistic man.

You may need to be constantly reminded that you are handsome and important.

Thus, he seeks self-validation or tries to improve his self-esteem.

Given this scenario, all that remains is to ask yourself:

Do you really want to put your trust in someone who can’t stop flirting?

How could it be transformed into a relationship of love and trust?

3) He is already dating someone

Another option could be if you are already in a relationship.

If he’s with someone but keeps texting or talking to you, watch out.

Surely, he likes you and can’t stop thinking about you.

Although it may not be enough to risk leaving the current relationship.

In this case, it might be good for both of you to cut contact for a while before starting something again.

Think about it: if he’s using you to cheat on his girlfriend, couldn’t he do the same to you?

If a man really likes you, he won’t try to use you as a toy.

And, much less, disrespect you.

4) They don’t have deep conversations

Have you tried to have a deep conversation with him and he doesn’t give you anything back?

This may be a sign that he is playing you.

But there is a way out!

Let’s face it; initial conversations with men can be difficult.

However, you can easily reverse it.

Try to find out what they are passionate about, and find out if they have common interests.

It will always be easier to have an interesting conversation by showing interest in him.

By doing so, it starts leaking information about you.

Try to highlight the one they have in common, this may generate intrigue.

And even ask you more questions about it.

It will surely generate more interest in you.

But remember, you don’t need to lose your personality doing it.

You should not lie about who you are and what you are passionate about him.

That will only lead you to momentary success.

Do you really want to start a possible relationship based on lies?

5) You have asked him for exclusivity and he does not want

If you’ve tried to go to the next level in the relationship and been denied, that’s clear.

You are probably dealing with a player interested only in his game.

I’m not saying that if he’s not ready to commit he’s not into you.

But if you’ve been dating for a while, and you have feelings for him, you need to be clear.

Because they are at the decisive moment of the beginning of any love bond.

Either you agree to continue waiting for him (or continue playing his game), or you continue with your life.

There will always be the hope that he will fall in love with you over time.

Trust me, I’ve been like this too. But this is when you should consult your gut.

That tells you? Do you think he really shows interest in being by your side?

If you want to find a solution, it is best to talk to him.

And try to be honest.

Remember that they are still getting to know each other, you cannot demand anything of them with this talk.

That will only push him away from you.

But you can talk to him about what is happening to you and what would make you feel better.

If they disagree, ask:

What is it that prevents him from having an exclusive relationship with you?

In case this is something you can control, then give it a try.

Otherwise, put your doubts aside and move on!

6) He constantly lies and does not admit his mistakes

Nobody is perfect and we all make mistakes.

But if he constantly lies to you, he may not respect you.

If this is the case, it could be a sign that he doesn’t like you.

Or that he just wants to get some kind of validation from you.

Think of it this way:

If he lies about little things while you’re in the dating phase, he’ll do it every time.

Imagine what will happen when they have a real relationship!

That’s a big sign that he’s toying with you, so walk away while you can.

7) He only texts you when he needs something

If he never looks for you without needing something, it’s a red flag.

Maybe he only initiates contact with you because he wants your help with something.

Or he needs an opinion or ask you for a favor.

You are probably their favorite person to talk about these topics, but nothing else.

If this is the case, it may be using you.

And that he only stays in the relationship as long as it benefits him.

People like that take advantage of people, but you don’t have to put up with it.

You already know, if he only shows up when it suits him, it may not be for you.

8) He is not clear about his feelings

This is something important.

She’s interested in you, but she’s not sure what she wants out of the relationship.

He misunderstands, makes you doubt, or even takes you ahead without realizing it.

It might tell you things like:

“I don’t know if I like you like that” or “I’m still not sure how I feel about you.”

Or just don’t say anything back and change the subject when you say, “I like you.”

It hurts, but at least now you know where you stand and can move on.

The fear of moving forward in the relationship may be paralyzing you.

Or that it comes from a very painful breakup.

The reasons can be many and each one very personal.

But if the times to advance for both do not match, it is a warning sign.

If he still can’t make up his mind for you, then he’s not the one, trust me!

9) Gives you vague answers

If he’s playing you, he’ll answer your questions vaguely.

He won’t tell you how he feels and that can be frustrating.

Whenever you want to talk about future plans, he will avoid the question.

Or maybe you will answer unclearly.

What you are doing is obvious.

He is buying time before moving away from you.

So do yourself a favor and let it go, you don’t need someone with doubts by your side.

10) His body language gives him away

The biggest sign that he’s messing with you is the most obvious: sex.

If you’re already getting intimate, you may feel like he’s just contacting you to do it.

The key to discovering if this can go further is how he behaves with you.

I mean how he treats you physically.

Do you think he is attracted to you? Does he show you?

If there is already passion between the sheets, surely you have no doubts about this.

But if you have not yet reached that point, here are a couple of clues to find out.

If he was really interested, he would show some sort of reaction to seeing you.

It could be the way he laughs, blushes, touches you or looks at you…

Surely you notice how he touches you when it is not necessary, or seeks to be close to you.

Or maybe he’ll be affectionate with you when you’re alone.

But if there are no signs that he likes you, then it may all be fake.

Even if your mouth says yes but your body language says no, that’s a sign.

I know, attraction isn’t everything, but it’s still a crucial part of a relationship.

11) His behavior is inconsistent with what he says

Does it send you mixed signals?

Maybe you say you want a serious relationship, but then you don’t want to commit.

If he seems to say one thing and do another, it could be because he likes you.

But he doesn’t like you enough to put any effort into the relationship.

It is evident that he does not put the same effort into the couple that you do.

If your behavior doesn’t match your words, it’s a red flag.

We are facing an integrity problem.

And this is pretty serious, if he doesn’t have integrity, what else does he have left?

All your other values ​​are likely to have no value either.

Have you wondered?

12) Does not show any interest in what matters to you

This is the ABC of falling in love.

Everyone knows that if you are interested in someone, you will want to know everything about that person.

So, pay attention to how he behaves when talking or doing things that you like.

He is interested? Do you want to know more about yourself and why you are passionate about it?

If he doesn’t show any interest in what matters to you and your hobbies, he probably doesn’t like you that much.

So, that will tell you a lot!

13) It is not there when you need it

If you’ve had a bad day and you went to him, you know what I’ll tell you.

If your suspicions are correct, he has not treated you as you have imagined.

Instead of supporting you, or trying to get a smile out of you, he ignored you.

Or, even worse, he started talking about him and his problems.

Leaving aside that you needed containment and company.

If someone treats you like this, you should leave immediately.

There is nothing worse than trying to convince yourself that he is the one.

Face the knowledge that if someone doesn’t want to take care of you, you should walk away.

You deserve much better than this!

14) Only compliment your appearance

This is a pretty obvious reason to keep in mind.

If it only focuses on your outside over your inside, pay attention.

Generally, men who do this is because they only have something in mind.

They want action in bed with you, and nothing else.

I don’t…