Conversation is key to building a healthy relationship. However, it can often seem very difficult to come up with a few questions to ask your partner, even more so when the intention is to cause some kind of reflection or introduction to a more serious subject.

Sometimes inspiration is lacking, isn’t it?! But with the options below, this “lack of inspiration” will end!

You will have a huge list of questions of different types to ask your love whenever you want: cute, fun, warm and thoughtful questions.

These questions are great for starting a healthy conversation, getting to know your partner better, and so they can get to know you better too!

cute questions:

1. When did you realize that you were interested in me?

two. When you first saw me, what caught your attention the most?

3. Where did we kiss for the first time?

4. When we first kissed, did you feel anything different?

5. After the first time we stayed, who took the initiative to get in touch the next day?

6. From what moment did you realize that our relationship would become serious?

7. Regarding my personality, what do you like most?

8. What do you feel when we hug?

9. What’s the first thing that comes to your mind when you think of me on a daily basis?

10. How do you feel when we’ve been apart for longer (than we’re used to)?

11. Do you feel like introducing me to your parents?

12. Do you feel like introducing me to your best friends and/or childhood friends?

13. What do you say about me to your friends?

14. What do you answer when people ask why you took an interest in me?

15. Can you remember what I wore the day we met?

16. What makes you jealous of me?

17. What song do you think can define our relationship?

18. What songs do you listen to and remember me?

19. Why do you love Me?

20. If you were to describe me in one word, what word would it be?

21. Would you rather kiss me quickly or hug me more slowly when we’re in public?

22. Would you write a poem about me?

23. Do you still feel your heart racing when you meet me?

24. Have you ever questioned whether you should date me?

25. Do you get anxious when we’re about to meet?

26. Do you smile when you receive a message from me on your cell phone?

27. Are you curious and excited when you see that I’m calling you?

28. In times of WhatsApp as the main means of communication, would you like to talk to me more on the phone?

29. Do you often dream about me?

30. Do you remember the first movie we saw together?

31. Do you remember the first restaurant we had dinner at together?

32. What was our first trip?

33. What was the best movie we saw together at the cinema?

34. What was the worst movie we watched together?

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35. What do you still not know about me?

36. What do you know about my childhood?

37. What changed in your way of thinking after we started dating?

38. If I were a flower, which flower would I be?

39. What was the first gift I gave you?

40. What was the first gift you gave me?

41. When you’re alone, do you think of me?

42. Do you sometimes feel like writing or calling me, but stop doing so for fear of “bothering me” and/or “being clingy”?

43. Would you tell me a secret now if I told one of mine?

44. If you see someone looking at me and/or flirting with me, how do you feel?

45. Do you get mad if someone says I’m beautiful?

46. If you could define our relationship in even three words, what words would you use?

47. Would you make me a romantic dinner?

48. Do you feel safe with me?

49. If we had met earlier than we know each other, do you think we would have fallen in love just the same?

50. When you watch a romantic comedy or a novel, do you think of me?

fun questions

51. Which quirk of mine do you find the funniest?

52. What flaw of mine irritates you the most?

53. When do I make you laugh?

54. Would you go to the movies with me to see a type of movie you don’t like?

55. Would you dance with me in a crowded bar or restaurant?

56. Would you ask for my hand in marriage in a crowded bar or restaurant?

57. If you were to ask for my hand in marriage today, what would it be like? Would you kneel?

58. If you asked me to marry you and I said “not yet”, would you stay with me?

59. If I were a musical style, what would it be?

60. What do you think of my feet?

61. If I were to bring you breakfast in bed tomorrow, what would you like to see on the tray?

62. If you were going to make me some coffee and take it to bed for me tomorrow, what would you put it on?

63. If we were to travel today, where would we go?

64. Would you take me on a trip with your family today?

65. Do I do something that makes you embarrassed/embarrassed?

66. What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done?

67. Which famous would you trade me for?

68. Do you think we are more of a “cool” or “grim” couple?

69. What was your most comical sexual experience?

70. If I were a season, what would it be?

71. If I were a food, what would I be?

72. What do you never intend to eat in life?

73. What would you do if I made you a surprise dinner with foods you don’t like?

74. How do you think people see you?

75. Have you ever been attracted to someone already being with me?

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76. If you could have any pet, which one would you choose?

77. If we had a dog or a cat today, what would it be called?

78. If you could only eat one type of food for the rest of your life, which would you choose?

79. If I could only eat one type of food for the rest of my life, do you know which one I would choose?

80. What kind of clothes do you think you’ll never see me in?

81. What kind of adventure do you think you’ll never see me doing?

82. What are three things you can’t live without?

83. If you were invisible for a day, what would you do?

84. If you could make three wishes of the “genie in the lamp”, what would they be?

85. If we were to have a baby soon, what would he (or she) call it?

86. What was your favorite childhood cartoon?

87. Of all the people you know, who do you think is the coolest?

88. If you catch a fish, what will you do with it?

89. What ride don’t you go to at an amusement park?

90. What’s the most embarrassing situation you’ve ever been in?

91. What do you consider the greatest invention of recent times?

92. What do you think they still need to invent?

93. If you were to get a tattoo today, what would it be?

94. What kind of clothes would you never wear (and would hate if I gave it to you)?

95. What would you do if I gave you a gift and you didn’t like it? (Would you disguise or tell the truth?)

96. What food reminds you of me?

97. What did you say you wanted to be when you grew up?

98. If you had to live on a desert island with just one friend, which one would you choose?

99. When you thought of someone to date, did you think of a person with a personality similar to or totally different from mine?

100. Would you do some crazy love for me?

Questions to ponder

101. How do you see our relationship five years from now?

102. Can you think of our relationship 20 years from now?

103. Do you think our meeting was the work of fate and/or God?

104. Do you think jealousy is synonymous with liking?

105. To what extent do you consider jealousy to be “acceptable”, normal?

106. Do you consider me very jealous?

107. What do I do that makes you very angry/upset?

108. What do you already know that if you do, I’ll be very angry?

109. If we have a child, what characteristics of me would you like to see in him?

110. If we have a daughter, what characteristics of me would you like to see in her?

111. If we have children, what characteristics of you would you like to see in them?

112. If you could change one characteristic of my personality, what would it be?

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113. Do you often dream that we are fighting?

114. Do you believe that I help you become a better person?

115. How do you envision our future?

116. Do you consider me a responsible person?

117. At what points do you believe I need to evolve as a person?

118. At what points would you like to evolve as a person?

119. What can I do to make our relationship better?

120. What can you do to make our relationship better?

121. How is our dialogue on a daily basis? Do we need to improve?

122. Do we have the same thought in relation to having children or not?

123. If I wanted to have children and you didn’t, how could we resolve this issue?

124. If you wanted to have children and I didn’t, how could we resolve this issue?

125. What changed in your life after we started dating?

126. Are you curious or would you rather I not talk about my past relationships?

127. What would you like me to know about your past but still haven’t had the courage to tell me?

128. What are you afraid of? Do you feel that I can help you with this?

129. Do you feel like you can help me with my fears?

130. Do you miss the single life?

131. Do you think we could date from a distance?

132. How do you describe your relationship with your family?

133. What would you change about raising our children compared to how you were raised by your parents?

134. What in your upbringing inspires us to raise our children?

135. Do you regret something you’ve done in this life?

136. Do you regret not doing something?

137. Who is the person who knows you best?

138. Has anyone ever told you that we don’t match?

139. Has anyone ever told you that we are soulmates?

140. Before me, had you ever really fallen in love?

141. How do you define love?

142. What do you think could change in our relationship?

143. Do you think our families interfere with our dating?

144. If you were to ask me a serious question right now, what would it be?

145. What was the saddest moment in your life?

146. What was the happiest moment of your life?

147. For you, what is betrayal? Have you ever cheated?

148. What, for you, is unacceptable in a relationship?

149. If our relationship doesn’t work out anymore, do you think we can still be friends?

150. If your family didn’t like me, what would you do?

There are many options for questions to ask your lover and start a good dialogue, whether in a relaxed or more serious way.

All this is very valid for life together, as they serve to strengthen the relationship. Take the opportunity and also check out the 10 not-so-important reasons why couples argue so much.