130+ INTIMATE questions to ask your boyfriend

We are often on a quest to find things we have in common with our partners, which leads us to learn many likes and dislikes through many questions.

One of the qualities that people look for in relationship compatibility is how much they can connect on an intellectual level.

One of the ways to test the compatibility between the couple is asking some questions.

Asking your boyfriend these questions means that you are essentially interested in knowing how well he is keeping up with important news, learning his views on controversial subjects, and also learning what subjects interest him the most.

If you were looking for interesting questions to ask your boyfriend, here’s a bunch!

Read on and see 130+ intimate questions to ask your boyfriend!

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Questions that will make him reflect

1. If you could solve a world problem, what would it be?

two. If you could live in a different time than we live at home, what would it be and why?

3. What advice would you give to a person graduating from high school?

4. If you could have chosen your own name, what would you have chosen?

5. If your house was on fire and you only had time to pick up 3 things, what would you pick up?

6. If you became famous, would you enjoy the spotlight or would you lose your privacy?

7. If you had R$1000.00 to spend on something special just for me, what would you buy?

8. If you were told that you have a terminal illness, how would you take this news?

9. If you only had one week to live, what would you do?

10. Would you sacrifice yourself for a stranger?

11. If a family member needed a kidney and you were the only one compatible, would you donate it?

12. If I wanted a puppy for my birthday, would you buy a purebred dog or adopt one from a kennel?

13. Do you suspect that your neighbors might be abusing your children, would you attack them or call the police?

14. If I disappeared, would you move on or would you dedicate your whole life to looking for me?

15. If you could invite 3 people to dinner, who would they be?

16. If you could live to be 100 and have the mind or body of a 30 year old, who would you choose and why?

17. If you could wake up tomorrow and choose one extra skill, what would it be and why?

18. If a crystal ball could tell the truth about your life, me or the future, what would you like to know?

20. If you could live anywhere, where would you live?

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Learn about how he sees himself and what he likes

21. Which of these phrases best fits your opinion? “Live in the moment”, or “Leave the best for later”?

22. What do you like most about your personality?

23. If you could change something about yourself, what would you change?

24. Do you prefer to go out or stay at home?

25. Do you consider yourself a motivated or unmotivated person?

26. How do you deal with failure?

27. Do you put more attention on the people around you or the things around you?

28. When things break, do you prefer to fix them or replace them?

29. Would you consider yourself materialistic?

30. What would you consider a perfect day?

31. What would your perfect night be?

32. What offends you the most?

33. What is it that you can’t start your day without?

34. If you’re stressed, what else helps you relax?

35. When you die, do you want to be buried or cremated? Because?

36. Do you consider yourself an optimist, pessimist or realist?

37. As we were walking down the street, we saw an old man sleeping under a cardboard box behind a grocery store. What’s your first thought about him?

38. Someone calls me something horrible. Do you let me fend for myself or do you step in and defend me?

39. What’s your opinion on me having male friends?

40. What three things are you willing to do for yourself?

41. Is there something no one knows about you?

42. Have you rehearsed a phone call beforehand?

43. Do you sing in the bath?

44. What are you most grateful for?

45. Is there something you’ve dreamed of doing for a long time? Why haven’t you done it yet?

46. What do you fear most about getting old?

47. What inspires you the most?

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Find out more about his past

48. Have you ever done something you regretted?

49. Haven’t you ever done something you regretted?

50. What is your happiest memory?

51. When was the last time you shed a tear? It’s because?

52. What is a tradition you did as a kid that you want to do with your kids someday?

53. What are some things in life that you’ve had to learn the hard way?

54. Is there a moment from your childhood that you would like to vividly remember?

55. What were your childhood aspirations and how did they change your life?

56. Who was your childhood best friend?

57. What is your scariest memory?

58. Do you think that much has changed since then?

59. In what areas do you want to change the most?

60. When was the first time you fell in love? And by whom?

61. When was the first time you said “I love you” to someone who wasn’t a relative of yours?

62. Is there a book that changed your life?

63. What is your biggest insecurity?

64. Is there anything you’re ashamed of?

65. Is there anything you wouldn’t want your family to know?

66. If you could change one thing about your past, what would you change?

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Political Issues

67. Why do you think the divorce rate is so high these days?

68. What do you think is the biggest flaw in the education system?

69. If you were running for president, what are the top three things you would include in your campaign?

70. Are you in favor of abortion? If yes, why? If not, why?

71. How do you feel about genetically modified foods?

72. What do you think would make any small business owner more successful?

73. Which invention do you think has done the most for the human race?

74. Should children be able to have cell phones?

75. Do you think a person’s outward appearance says something about their character?

76. How important do you think it is to have good teaching?

77. Do you consider yourself proud to live in this country?

78. Are you in favor of what our president has done for the country?

79. What are your views on the political system in general?

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Deep questions to learn how he feels about relationships

80. What is your position on premarital sex?

81. What do you look for most in a spouse?

82. What religious views do you have and why?

83. How important is it to you to save money?

84. How important is it to you to invest money?

85. How important do you think sex is in marriage?

86. If one of us had to move far away, would you be able to handle a long-distance relationship?

87. What do you think could destroy a relationship and never be forgiven?

88. Do you dream of having children?

89. Do you think it’s more important to work or spend time with your family?

90. What are the three key elements in every successful relationship?

91. Do you think people can be friends with your exes?

92. Do you believe emotional cheating is as bad as real cheating?

93. What is your opinion on open relationships?

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Learn about your relationship and how he feels about you

94. When did you realize you wanted to be with me for the first time?

95. Do you like being with me?

96. What was your first impression of me?

97. Would you surprise me with an expensive gift, or would you consult with me before spending the money on it?

98. Do you prefer that I give you affection or attention?

99. Which do you think is more admirable, a stay-at-home mom or a career mom?

100. Would you rather leave a big impact on the world or a big impact on your family?

101. Which song do you think suits our relationship best?

102. Which famous real or fictional couple do you think is most like us?

103. Do you think a proposal should be a big public display or an intimate private moment?

104. If we had children, what traits would you like them to receive from you and me?

105. What do you like about me?

106. What do you think are three things we have in common?

107. What are the biggest differences between us?

108. Is there anything in our relationship that you think we need to improve on?

109. What can you never commit to?

Intimate, serious and spiritual questions

110. You believe in God?

111. Do you believe in soulmates?

112. Do you forgive and forget or do you forgive and keep remembering?

113. If you had children, what would be your biggest hope and biggest fear for them?

114. What is the area in your life where you feel something is missing?

115. Do you believe there is something good in everyone?

116. Do you believe that I can be your girlfriend but at the same time your best friend?

117. Do you think it’s better to have the worst house in a nice neighborhood or the best house in a bad neighborhood?

118. Is life as you imagined it as a child?

119. Would you rather have a life full of love or a life full of money?

120. Can a positive outlook improve any situation?

121. Do you think children are more of a blessing or a burden?

122. Do you believe the phrase “opposites attract”?

123. Who are the three people in your life that you would risk your life for?

124. If I was giving birth to our son and complications arose, that meant that only one of us could survive, who would you save?

125. What would you like people to say about you after you die?

126. If you could go back in time to give your younger self advice, what would you say?

127. What is your life story?

128. What roles do love and affection play in your life?

129. Complete this sentence: “I wish I had someone I could share with………….

130. If you died tonight, is there anything you regret not telling someone?

131. Who is the most important person in your family?

132. What problem are you dealing with right now?

133. What was the biggest fight you’ve ever faced?

134. Could you help me with my biggest problems?

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