12 Things Every Woman Does to Make Sure He’s the Right Man for Her

There are many scientific articles published that talk about how to choose a partner for life. Still, when we come across a possible candidate for the title of the man of our dreams, most of the time we forget about the advice we read in books. Instead, our subconscious uses choice tactics, which are present in a woman’s genetic material. And, in practice, these turn out to be much more effective than any kind of recommendation or advice.

O awesome.club brings the strategy of “typically feminine” behavior at the beginning of a relationship, showing that, often, behind the feminine peculiarities, there is a sincere and touching desire to find “her” man.

The popular wisdom about the fact that a person is judged by the way they dress exists for a reason. But nowadays men are getting the practice to dress well to impress women. Therefore, they have paid more attention to accessories. Generally, the man chooses these details himself and therefore this can indicate many things. For example:

the very elaborate accessories that are in the latest fashion indicate a high degree of dependence on opinion of others and the probability that the man is easy to manipulate; very expensive accessories with clothes of medium and low value (as well as fakes) demonstrate a clear desire to show more of what the person really has🇧🇷 conservative decorative elements (bow ties, cufflinks, clocks, walking sticks, etc.) he is conservative and stable in his convictions;
the colorful and different accessories are typical of a cheerful and knowledgeable person who loves everything unusual and new (Unfortunately, often the tendency to seek novelty also affects relationships).

A woman not only looks at a man, but also listens to him. If, when communicating with her, her voice changes, not becoming strong or deliberately manly, but rather softer and even a little louder, then the interlocutors will fit in. The man he adjusts his voice to that of his companion, and it is an obvious sign of sympathy.

So what a man says is really much less important than what he does. A suitor can waste a thousand compliments, but if a woman doesn’t feel her voice is pleasant, it won’t do any good.

Sometimes the woman quickly puts a label on the suitor as “slow” or, instead, “quack”. This is not because she is looking for flaws, but because from the very first words, she has detected a complete incompatibility with him. Amazingly, the truth is that compatible couples have the same voice speed, and any dissonance provokes an intuitive rejection.

When asking a man to dance, a woman is not only looking for a moment of fun, but also instinctively wants to know you more and better🇧🇷 First of all, an invitation to dance is:

an excellent way to discreetly assess the physical characteristics of the man, his way of walking, his elasticity, agility and strength; the opportunity to observe your ability to soften uncomfortable moments (step on one foot, mix up your steps, lose your rhythm); a test for some important psychological qualities: determination, masculinity, the ability to “guide”, both in dance and in life or, conversely, the desire to be guided; the experience of being in the partner’s “personal space”: only compatible people are able to feel comfortable at such a close distance.

Often, a woman tells her partner, as if by accident, about the signs of attention shown by other men. Sometimes, she may deliberately provoke a conflict situation, for example, with an ex-boyfriend or a less fortunate suitor.

But this, in fact, does not hide the desire to show, nor the desire to increase its own value, but rather the intention of awakening in man the old “hunting instincts” and taking advantage of his competitive spirit. And at the same time, see how he will demonstrate determination and dignity in a rivalry situation.

Since ancient times, women have seen men as a provider, something that men themselves often misinterpret. This explains the lavish behavior that gentlemen sometimes display when spending a lot of money on a date in hopes of impressing a woman, for example.

But more likely it will leave a negative impression: the taste for waste threatens the material well-being of a possible future relationship, especially if the woman wants to get married and have children. Therefore, it is more likely that a woman looking for a serious relationship choose a man who is rational and moderate in terms of expenses🇧🇷 Although, a miser, for obvious reasons, will also be rejected.

A very reliable indicator of compatibility is the partner’s ability to reflect the woman’s movements.🇧🇷 If during a date the man repeats all or part of his girlfriend’s gestures (e.g. the way she drinks, the way she puts her hands on the table, the way she touches her chin, etc.), this can be considered a sign of a possible relationship. Successful.

Whatever the subject discussed by the couple during the first meetings, all the information obtained will be useful for the woman to answer the question of How far can that relationship go?🇧🇷 The best topics of conversation, from a women’s point of view, are:

the man talking about his parents, about the relationship with his brothers and sisters (family values ​​are largely determined by childhood memories and the example of close relatives🇧🇷 men talk about their friends and their leisure time (but telling stories of how single and “lucky” friends are skilled at “rescuing” married friends who have been “dominated” and taking them to a club or bar is a sign of alert); the man talking even about favorite movies, books and series, as well as favorite characters in general, can give an idea of ​​the main values ​​of the interlocutor.

So even without asking direct questions, relying only on the general context of the conversationthe woman automatically interprets everything she heard.

Historically, the woman is considered a fragile being. That way, no one is surprised by your cries for help, whether it’s because of a broken down car or a dripping faucet in the kitchen. But there are few men who know that this frailty is often “fake”. Using this harmless trick, a woman can kill two birds with one stone:

see if the man is capable of taking the lead and solving the small problems, which will not be lacking in the course of life together; assess whether such concepts as help, care and compassion are a strong characteristic of this man.

Even a woman who doesn’t know how to drive a car is able to perfectly read the qualities of her partner, just by observing the way he drives. And this is much more effective than any psychological test, because conditioned reflexes cannot be omitted from an encounter.

Sudden lane changes, abrupt stops and rivalry with other drivers along the way are some of the unfavorable signs, which indicate imbalance and aggression.

An important step for any woman is to introduce a man to people in her inner circle, to those who are special to her. Not only is it a sign that she is willing to continue the relationship, but also a kind of test for the candidate🇧🇷 It could be that she is already in love and has lost objectivity, and the eyes of those she trusts will be very important to her.

Usually, friends ask a lot of questions (sometimes about things that interest the woman herself, but she doesn’t dare ask). Sometimes they even combine small teasing (more “aggressive” pranks on the part of men, flirtation on the part of women). The man who successfully passes this test is likely to fit in perfectly not only in the company of the woman’s friends, but also in her life.

It is not for nothing that they say that even on the first date the woman is already wondering if the man’s last name matches the name she wants to give her children. Caring for offspring is inherent to us on a genetic level, and nature dictates that, long before children appear, it’s a good idea to make sure the man has the capacity to face his role as a father.

This is why during the process of relationship development many men “by chance” end up surrounded by their partner’s nephews, sisters, brothers or children of close friends. The one who does not panic when he sees a child is considered a worthy candidate. And the one who really knows how to relate and gets along well with the little ones has the woman’s total admiration.

Of course, many women don’t think about having children and maybe that doesn’t even interest them at first. However, even without the desire to be a mother, it may be important for them to see how their suitors treat children, who are pure and fragile beings, to also discover a little more about their character.

In short, at the beginning of a relationship, female intuition works hard, constantly checking her compatibility with the chosen one. Likewise, if the man has serious intentions, he also watches the woman closely. After all, both need to make sure that the first impression was correct and the mechanisms we have naturally built in help us draw the necessary conclusions.

And you, do you have your own way of quickly determining if that person is “the one”? Share with us in the comments!