Who wouldn’t want to meet an amazing person, someone with whom we can share our daily lives and even have the chance to be with them for the rest of our lives?

But first we need to know the person very well, something very difficult sometimes due to insecurity or even fear of getting hurt.

That’s why the team at the Me Apaixonei portal has prepared some tips for you to follow and get along when the first meeting with that loved one arrives:

1- Speak but also listen.

Show yourself an extroverted person and that you are enjoying talking to the other person, because shyness will not help you at all, quite the opposite. Be open and don’t be afraid to bring up any topic that interests you, always remembering that you are on your first date and that you want to make a good impression. And in addition to talking, you have to know how to listen and show interest in what the other person is saying.

2- Be humorous.

Laughing together with the other person will make them more open to you and will also make you see a good-humored person in you, that with you they will always have a good time and will have the absolute freedom to bring out their sense of humor.

3- Have self-confidence.

Show that you are confident and self-sufficient, because if you show insecurity to the other person it may be that it will make them not interested in you.

4- Make a suspense.

Don’t be too pushy, it’s best to create a little mystery, not telling a few things about yourself and letting the other person find out for themselves. This will make her more interested in you.

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5- Make some offers

In addition to the two of you having dinner at a restaurant, make offers that the other person will not be able to refuse, as they are already seeing you. Ask her to go to the movies, go shopping, get ice cream, etc.

6- Be unpredictable

Create mysteries about yourself and don’t behave in a predictable way. Just like tip number 4, this tip is also very effective!

7- Absence

When you notice that the other person is finally taking an interest in you, say that you need to go home because you have an appointment you can’t put off. It will make her want to be with you again, and now on a second date things can be very different 🙂

8- Make a surprise

In addition to being at a dinner party, offer the other person a gift. Like a flower, a chocolate, paying the bill (it doesn’t matter if it’s a man or a woman) etc.

9- Dare

If you see that things are heating up, why not heat up even more? Enjoy the moment and give a very passionate kiss!

10- Be patient

If you find that things aren’t going as you expected, don’t be in a hurry. Be patient, consistent and learn to wait. Everything takes time, love has its stages!

11- Don’t stay on the phone

An irritating thing is seeing the other answering messages, laughing to himself at what he sees on his cell phone screen, accessing the social network. What an inappropriate time! So, leave your cell phone in your purse or pocket. If it’s not someone really important, you don’t have to answer. You’re not going to spend that many hours with the person, so the person calling you can’t wait.

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12- At the time of farewell

If you liked the meeting and you want it to be repeated… calm down! Don’t act like you’re closing a deal and immediately need a date to sign the contract. I mean, the next date. But make it clear that the night was great, speaking with all the letters and giving a tight hug. The other person will understand and, most likely, your hug will be followed by a romantic kiss, or fun, depending on the person’s personality.