For some women, motherhood can be complex, involving the purest feelings of love, but also tiredness, positive and negative surprises and some privations. Celebrities expose their experiences in experiencing a mother’s love, and encourage other women to carry out motherhood in a light, real way, without guilt or perfectionism.
That’s why the incredible.club gathered testimonials from famous Brazilian women who open their hearts and share common concerns, fears and insecurities in motherhood. If you are a mother, you will possibly identify. Follow!
1. Luciana Gimenez
The presenter Luciana Gimenez used social networks to open her heart giving a sincere account, which involves the feeling of guilt of the woman who questions herself and plays numerous roles. “Maybe I’m pushing myself too hard, but this is one of those weeks where it’s really hard to balance the plates.”
She loves being a mother and wants to always give her best to her children, Lucas Jagger and Lorenzo. ”I don’t want to think that I was absent in the future. Which page talks about these mother’s feelings in the Mother’s Manual and where is this manual that I didn’t receive?”
2. Sthefany Brito
The actress is Enrico’s mother and has already stated that the beginning of motherhood was not easy; she cried without even understanding what she felt. ”Fear, anguish, pain. I felt lost and confused at times. The first week I cried all day, every day and several times a day.”
She considers herself a practical person and could not understand what was happening to her. ” I cried many times for not fitting into the romanticization of motherhood that I always imagined. Maybe I’m not the great mother I thought I would be, maybe I’m not a good mother. I got hurt many times thinking like that.
3. Fernanda Lima
About exhaustion and sleep deprivation, presenter Fernanda Lima shared that she cries for the daily demand and that sometimes she feels like a baby who asks for a lap. ” I cry a little, from tiredness and hug very tightly as if now I were the baby asking for a lap. The crying is not for today, nor for the baby’s flu, but for the daily demand that falls on us. ”
She also revealed that she hasn’t slept in two years. ”Raise your hand the mother who also lives the perrengue of the shared bed and the sleep that doesn’t fit.” The artist speaks of the place of a mother who doesn’t need to take the bus, or pay card, or wash clothes, or cook, like her said.
4. Thaila Ayala
Francisco’s mother, son of her relationship with fellow actor Renato Góes, shared with the public the joy and also the tiredness of her first Christmas with the family shortly after the child’s birth. The actress said that she passed with a clean face and with the improvised table that her husband set up. ”Pure exhaustion of someone who has a 20-something-day-old baby who breastfeeds on demand.”
5. Rafa Brites
The couple of presenters Rafa Brites and Felipe Andreoli have two children, Leon and Rocco. She encourages mothers to exercise. ”I know that many mothers don’t have time to exercise, but I swear it’s worth it, rest your head and produce a lot of good train for our body. Train like a mother, train like you can.”
6. Pathy Dejesus
The actress has a support network, which she considers very important. ” There comes a time when you need some air and, if you don’t have a support network, being a single mother, you have nowhere to run, “she said in an interview.
She opened her heart to say that being a mother is full of challenges, although it is an honor to be Rakim’s mother. “The mission is exhausting, but the strength comes from my son.” She looks at the child and sees the results of the respectful relationship, of dialogue, affection and complicity.
7. Mileide Mihaile
Mother of Yhudy, son of the relationship she had with singer Wesley Safadão, the influencer and dancer revealed that she feels guilty for dedicating herself to work and trying to divide herself into a thousand. “The truth is that in order to play our role as a mother in a happy way, we first need to be happy women, fulfilled with achievements and choices.”
8. Vivian Amorim
Vivian is Malu’s mother, from her relationship with Leo Hirschmann. Experiencing motherhood for the first time, the former BBB said that the experience is a challenging delivery. ”The baby depends more on the mother than anyone else, but at the end of the day, we draw strength from where we didn’t even know we had it and we win.”
She was sincere in showing that exhaustion is as great as maternal responsibility. According to her, some days are more difficult and some nights more desperate, and yet she has given strength to other mothers. ”Stay firm my sisters, we’re together.”
9. Eliana
The presenter is the mother of Arthur and Manuela. The artist reflects on pausing life, something that mothers always hear from people. ”I kept thinking about how many times, since becoming a mother, I’ve heard the phrase ‘don’t pause your life for your children, because one day they grow up’; as a disguised way of belittling maternal dedication. Don’t pause life. This is a curious idea, since being a mother means living forever on breaks.”
”Our children are products of all our breaks. Because it’s on the break that we strengthen the bond, it’s on the break that we build memories. It is in the pause of life, in this incessant living for the other, in the midst of pain and sacrifices that, as women, we often see ourselves full; and more than that, we see each other as mothers.”
For the presenter, being a mother is a gift and she sees social networks as a way to share the pain and difficulties of the role. ”This in no way cancels out the love involved and our support network will be infinitely greater. Let’s go together.”
10. Leticia Birkheuer
Away from TV for a few years, the actress has been experiencing solo motherhood since João Guilherme was 1 year and 9 months old. ”It’s very difficult, only those who go through it know what it is. I’m very proud of the values I try to pass on to my son and I’m optimistic about life.”
11. Maria Fernanda Cândido
Living in France with her husband, Petrit Spahira and children Tomás and Nicolas, the actress said in an interview that living with teenagers is a difficult period for mothers. ”It’s a horrible thing. This period of adolescence, we should share and share more with people to warn, to let people know. It’s a very sincere opinion of mine.”
For her it is a difficult and strong period, since communication has changed a lot. ”In the past, I used to say: ‘It’s on the table, everyone’. And I served the table. Then everyone was running. ‘Mommy, mommy, how delicious, what do you have to eat today?’ Now, no response. Just silence,” she vents.
12. Tatá Werneck
The actress and presenter is Clara’s mother, the result of her relationship with Rafael Vitti. Without romanticizing the role of mother, the artist is quite sincere in opening her heart on the subject. ”We are human and we go through many things when we generate a person within us.”
She faced difficulties at the beginning of her pregnancy and felt sick every day and even got used to it. Tatá sees herself as a different woman as a mother and her only goal is to see her daughter grow up. About real motherhood, the artist said in an interview: ”When I complained, I was afraid that they would think that I didn’t love my daughter”.
Have you ever been through situations similar to those experienced by celebrities? How do you see yourself and experience motherhood? How it feels? Share your experience in the comments section!
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