Want to make your husband even happier when having sex? How about becoming the sexy and attractive wife he’s dreamed of? Here’s how to be a sexy wife and your husband’s dream woman!

Are you happily married, but not sexy? There’s no reason for that lingerie to be left out just because you have a ring on your finger. It’s time to learn how to be a sexy wife and seduce your husband by being yourself!

Somehow, everything changes for many women after they get married. The husband and wife begin to take it easy. And soon, with the intimacy and bond between the two, they start to take things for granted.

But you don’t have to go that way. It’s precisely because you’re married that you can be—and feel—desirable, sexy, and learn to be the hottest wife for your husband.

Why do things cool down after marriage?

This is a very misconception that many people have, that marriage makes their sex life boring. But that’s not true! Putting the brushes together doesn’t suppress your sex hormones or make the two of you boring in bed.

Couples grow up together and sometimes that means little is left for the imagination. But do not need be like that.

Women are fabulous, whether or not they have a ring on their finger. So why do these fabulous, confident and extremely sexy women suddenly find themselves bored after getting married?

Just because you’re a wife now doesn’t mean you should let go of that fire that hooked your husband from the very first date.

What is really boring your sex life in your marriage is the repetitiveness. The monotony of life.

The monotony of married life

This monotony is experienced by everyone in a long-term relationship, whether you are married or have been together for several years.

It’s all hot and sexy for the first few months, and you have sex in every room and every floor you can imagine. Her husband is still excited to see her in various positions, and everything at this stage is exciting. Every day a new position — WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!

And then it all goes down the drain because you start taking things for granted. Instead of seeing each other in sexy attire, you start seeing yourself on the toilet seat, playing games on your cell phone, brushing your teeth…

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And we make the mistake of assuming that all good things will remain good, even if we don’t cultivate or exploit them.

How to be your husband’s dream wife

Do you think just because you’re married that sex must become obsolete and your conversations a routine? Wrong. Think again!

Here are all the ways you can be a sexy wife and still ignite the fire of your husband’s passion:

1. Embrace the role of wife

So you are the wife. You are the safe place for your husband after a hard day, the one who makes him fabulous dinners and delights him with pleasant conversations… But you also do the dishes, help pay the bills and clean dirty underwear.

Rather than being reluctant in your role as a wife — embrace the fantasy that comes along with that role if you are a stay-at-home woman.

Show him exactly how sexy a wife can be: put on that provocative lingerie of yours while you’re together watching a movie or while you cook. For sure things will heat up later.

This is sure to be an image of a wife he will never forget.

2. Explore your own happiness

You are married and yes, two become one. But that doesn’t mean you should start becoming co-dependent on him or vice versa. You are still YOU and nothing has changed other than the fact that you are legally a couple.

Stay to yourself, lead your own life too, have your own friends and keep doing things you’ve always done.

Of course, if you have a baby, you could lose a significant part of your freedom for a year or two. But that doesn’t mean you should depend on others for your own happiness.

Remember that being codependent is not sexy at all.

3. Dress up for him at night

Baggy pajamas and old t-shirts with holes are very comfortable. But get rid of them!

Obviously, you don’t have to wear sexy lingerie and walk around the house all day like you’re starring in a movie. But you can dress in more attractive clothes than accentuate your sexy parts.

4. Be sexy in public

This is important. Of course, as long as it’s for your husband and he sees it that way, that’s all that matters. But how do you feel when you leave the house with your man? Do you feel sexy and desirable?

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Just because you’re married doesn’t mean you should get carried away with boring self-indulgence. But be careful not to overdo it because, hey, you don’t need more male attention, right?

But you’re not doing it for other men. You are doing this for yourself and for your man. When you feel sexy, your husband can’t help but notice it too.

And when he sees you dazzlingly sexy in public, it will only make him realize how lucky he is to have a wife who is as sexy as you are!

5. Don’t make him feel insecure

A sexy wife is not trying to seduce every other man she sees on the street. As much as we sometimes fall into the temptation of making men jealous to get attention, it could backfire, because he would assume that you are not happily married to him.

Instead of trying to bring the sexiness back into the relationship, he may give up completely and look for comfort elsewhere.

6. Perfume yourself!

A woman who smells sexy… is sexy! Scented perfumes and moisturizers are so underrated it’s shocking! If you want to seduce your husband and be a sexy wife, wear a good perfume.

Every time he gets a whiff of her fragrance, he can’t help but be seduced by her.

7. Awaken the alpha male in your man

Want to make your husband feel incredibly attracted to you? So help him feel like a man and awaken the alpha male inside him. Boost it, be its rock and support.

Let him know that you are his loving wife and that you will support him. When he trusts you, he will respect you and your opinions.

And soon, he would feel incomplete without you by his side. Beyond the superficial, this is how you are the real sexy wife!

8. Don’t stop having sex

It’s easy to go a few days without sex, and before you know it, it’s been several weeks or a month since the two of you last had sex! Don’t let that happen, because this strange dry spell will become normal before you even know it.

The best part about sex is that the more times you have it, the more you want it!

9. Have a date night a week

This might seem like a silly “mom” thing, but don’t be fooled. This strategy is great for both newlyweds and veterans.

Life is hectic and between jobs, family, friends and possibly children, there is sometimes little time to connect with your partner and just “be” together.

Some couples like to have a monthly vacation or an exciting event to go to or even a trip where they can leave it all behind. These aren’t ordinary dinner dates, but they are thrilling adventure type dates.

Date night is about spending time together as a couple. Instead of worrying about what sexy lingerie to put on for the night, try something a little more sentimental, like recreating your first date.

10. Play sex games with him

You know how boring sex gets, but does a night on the dance floor and a few drinks make you both horny? It works the same way with sex games too. You’re spending every night at home together, and just nothing is sexy anymore.

So spice it up by playing some sex games in the comfort of your own home. What do you have to lose?

11. Send nudes to each other

He might see you naked every morning and every night, but there’s something so exciting about getting a sexy picture of your woman naked when you least expect it!

It works, and it works so well it’s almost surprising!

If you want to know how to be the sexy wife of your husband’s dreams, be bold and send him a nude every now and then. He will always want more!