10 Things People Do to Please Others, But End Up Ruining Their Feeling

We all want to make a good impression on those around us. And you don’t have to do anything special. Just be a sincere and friendly person, be able to carry on a conversation and, of course, be yourself. However, some individuals try too hard to please everyone around them and this often leads to the opposite result.

We, from awesome.club, we have selected habits and actions that can create a not so pleasant impression on the people around you. And at the end, we prepared a bonus report on what might be hidden behind the ostentation and the image of a perfect life on social networks. Check out!

A girl wearing high heels at the beach seems about as inappropriate as wearing sportswear to a job interview. Of course, having her own style is brave, commendable, and even necessary. However, we must not forget that our clothes make a first impression. So, in order not to be considered too eccentric, it is better to choose clothes that suit the circumstances. In the business environment, more formal clothes should be worn, and on the beach — comfortable flip-flops and loose clothing are ideal.

You probably know people who boast that they know everyone, that they have connections everywhere they go, and that they even claim to have been introduced to members of the royal family. These types of people never miss the opportunity to mention their important contacts and, at any moment, they are ready to utter the famous embarrassing phrase: “Do you know who you are talking to?” These braggarts rarely elicit sympathy from the group, although they try their best to show that they are nice. If you’re really networked, it’s best to talk about them when it’s really appropriate.

Knowing how to listen is one of the most important skills in communication. However, unfortunately, not everyone knows about this. Some people have a habit of interrupting an interlocutor by inserting stories about their lives and not allowing him to speak. Apparently, those who do this want to stand out and be in the spotlight, but such behavior can make a bad impression and turn people away.

There are individuals who don’t miss an opportunity to be rude to waiters or cleaning staff. And for no reason. Behind such behavior, most likely, there is a desire to show superiority. These attitudes don’t instill confidence in others and discourage people from wanting to spend time with someone who appears to be ill-mannered.

It is natural that we want to show our intelligence to make a good impression on the people we like. However, you should be careful with difficult words, especially if you’re not sure what they mean. Using inappropriate words can make you the butt of a joke. To avoid this, it’s best to use language you understand and work on improving your vocabulary.

Why do people buy fake Rolex watches or Louis Vuitton handbags? Many want to appear more successful and wealthy than they really are. Those around you probably won’t be able to tell that it’s a fake if they don’t know the brand well. However, if a friend knows even a little bit about your income, he will likely know what you can and cannot pay. To avoid being labeled, it’s better to choose original products from more affordable brands.

People who constantly criticize others think they are doing a good deed by pointing out flaws and shortcomings. They always reject any idea and see the evil in everything. It’s very difficult to maintain a friendship with someone like that, and over time, even the closest friends end up drifting away from these individuals. Often insecurity and jealousy are behind this habit, and the problem lies in the difficulty of admitting this to yourself.

While the whole world was looking forward to the next episode of Game of Thrones, there were those who proudly said that they were not interested in such “nonsense”. And he was still going to argue with the fans to prove his superiority. People who refuse to participate in what is in vogue, contrary to what it seems, often have a desire to stand out and, at the same time, get involved and also be part of the movement. Someone who really doesn’t care about something doesn’t go around criticizing all the time, everywhere.

Laughter is one of the fastest ways to establish communication between individuals. A good joke can ease the tension in the room, but only if it’s done spontaneously. Experts believe that people can identify fake laughter unmistakably. And you’ve probably noticed that someone who laughs too loudly and theatrically evokes negative emotions in those around them. Well, we can only wonder why such people force fake laughs.

According to makeup artists, lighter, minimalist makeup has been in fashion for years. Using multiple layers of cosmetics is a thing of the past. Therefore, girls who continue to go overboard on make-up may end up being the butt of jokes around.

When I was a student, I helped my uncle put up a super simple room for rent. It was old but clean and not far from the metro, and most importantly: cheap for a capital city price. A lot of “bloggers” and “influencers” wrote to me, and even asked to lower the value. One of them had photos on social media with expensive cars, on yachts, in Gucci bags, in restaurants, resorts and with expensive drinks. Boasting success for fools. Meanwhile, he asked me to lower the rent from 1,000 reais to 850 and divide the shorts, which were 500 reais, into 6 months. I don’t and probably never will understand people like that. © Babakin / Pikabu

What other habits and behaviors of other people have made you withdraw from them? Tell us in the comments section.