10 Signs He Doesn’t Love You

You date, are engaged to someone or even already married to someone you suspect doesn’t love you. Check below if he’s showing signs that he doesn’t love you and be alert to see if you’re not loving alone in a one-sided relationship – where only you surrender.

1 – He doesn’t care about you. But he cares about his team that lost the game, about the new car that the neighbor bought without power and about so many other irrelevant things, which for him deserve much more attention than you do.

2 – He is never available. He always rejects their invitations, cancels meetings at the last minute – only the sacred football of the weekend he doesn’t miss, much less meetings with friends for a beer.

3 – He lies to you. You know he lies to you. He says he has a lot of errands to do at work and he’ll be staying late, but deep down you know that’s just an excuse for not having to hang out with you. Or worse, makes up an excuse to fight you on a Saturday night and says he’s going home to cool off—but is actually going to the bar.

4 – His future plans do not include you. He talks a lot about what he wants to do next year, as you can see in five years, however, his name or the subject “we” was never mentioned in these plans.

5 – He is always keeping you away. Going to his house or seeing the place where he works is practically a vetoed possibility in his life. He never really lets you get close to his life and what revolves around it.

6 – His life is a mystery to you. Do you happen to know where he studied when he was little? Do you know what trips he has taken with his family? Do you know your brothers-in-law? Is his life a complete mystery to you and you don’t know anything about him other than what everyone else knows? Think and be aware.

7 – He doesn’t deliver what he promises. He says he will call you, that he will take you to such a place, that you will travel together, however when the day arrives or close to the day he finds a way to seem impossible to fulfill what he promised because he has so much to do at work or because the neighbor’s dog got sick.

8 – He never goes out with you alone. Romantic dinner for two? Impossible. Go out only if it’s with all his friends and wherever HE wants.

9 – Talks to you as if you were his friend. He treats you like you’re one of his bar mates, uses the same language and addresses the same topics. Where is the affection and differentiated treatment that the partner deserves?

10 – He doesn’t mind spending a lot of time away from you. For him to go a month without seeing you, there’s no problem. The more days he can spend in his single life away from you – the better.

Despite all this, there is no reason to panic. Maybe he doesn’t love you yet, but he likes you. Wait and see if he improves in the areas where he has been lacking. Do not take hasty actions. It is possible that gradually he allows himself to love and treats you in a totally different way. However, if he continues to act the way we described in the 10 Common Don’ts, it may be best to end the relationship.