10 Insignificant Reasons Why Couples Fight So Much

Most couples fights are due to simple questions in everyday life: who will wash the dishes? Who will do the laundry? Who’s going to take out the trash early in the morning?… However, sometimes couples fight for such ridiculous reasons that they can later become synonymous with a lot of laughter.

O awesome.club selected 10 ridiculous and useless reasons why, very often, couples in love fight furiously and what to do to put it aside and enjoy a good relationship.

You walk into the bathroom, and on the most stressful day of the week, you see that the lid is up. How not to be furious? The fight is set: screams, curses and the world turns upside down because of a single toilet seat. Meanwhile, the other doesn’t understand what he’s going through and why it’s so hard to get the drug off the toilet seat. One wants the lid down, the other wants the lid open. Typical couple fight…

They had dinner together with lots of love and harmony, everything was perfect, until it was time to wash the dishes. One is anxious to get up quickly and go to the sofa, as a good movie is about to start, while the other has to get everything together and do all the dishes by himself. And the worst part is that there’s always that huge pan left over that is super difficult to wash, while the other is already sitting comfortably on the couch, watching the beginning of the movie. Frustrating.

This always happens at an inopportune time. Of course, most people, before using the toilet, check to see if there is paper or not. Otherwise, you’ll just reach out to grab it, but… SURPRISE! Your sweetheart has also left another empty roll of paper, and you have to scream for him to help you. Embarrassing to say the least, no?

People split into “why is it so dark?” and “why so much light?”. For some reason, these two extremes meet in a relationship. Some are concerned with their eyesight, while others are concerned with the electricity bill at the end of the month or the tranquility of being in the dark.

Many dream of a love that is practically a professional photographer so that their photos come out beautiful and get a lot of likes, but unfortunately, their love is only adept at taking pictures at the most inappropriate moment, like in the middle of a yawn or eating a cake with lots of frosting.

“I just cleaned the goddamn floor. Get out of here now!!!” Okay, the fight has already started. It’s really annoying when you’ve cleaned the whole house, everything is shining and someone walks in with sand in their shoes and practically all your effort goes down the drain, isn’t it? And, to make matters worse, the fight ends in one throwing the mistakes of 1996 in the other’s face.

Why is it always like this? You have to get up earlier because someone else’s alarm clock wakes up the whole house. For some reason, you were the one who woke up, not the one who really should have woken up. The most stressful thing is when this happens to a couple, isn’t it? While your half is sleeping peacefully, HIS alarm clock woke you up, it had nothing to do with it…

There is a very peculiar and incomparable love for the last bit, whatever it may be. You stared at it for a long time, but until now, you didn’t have time to get a taste of it. So, in a careful way, he put the rest of this wonderful snack on a separate plate and hid it in the deepest place of the fridge to hide it from the others. Until the moment comes, you open the fridge again, but only find an empty plate. It’s almost a reason for the 3rd World War…

After a great but tiring day at work, you take a nice shower and brush your teeth. You pick up the toothbrush while singing your favorite song, and when you reach for the toothbrush, it’s… OPEN! And you still need to clean the residue left on the lid and the rim… Why is it so difficult to close the lid?

In a very emotional moment, you head home after work at full speed, since today the new chapter of your favorite series comes out. You’ve already left some goodies ready for when you arrive, watch TV while eating. Finally you are home, you fall on the sofa and, in response, you hear a “I already saw it”. This is even offensive!

A great deal of conflict starts due to omissions between people. Therefore, psychologists recommend examining the problem with your spouse. Without shouting or accusing, try to explain that this situation is very frustrating and, together, you must build a solution. Use messages as reminders. If your sweetheart is always forgetting to do something, then paste the tasks so that he remembers everything. For example, in the hall, you can stick a note saying “Turn off the light”. Family relations specialists recommend approaching the solution of problems with a game. For example, the couple can decide who will wash the dishes by playing “rock, paper or scissors”, the good old joquemô. The important thing is that neither of you perceive the tasks as a punishment. It’s just a division of them. Change the situation, not the person. It’s very difficult to let go of our habits, but it’s much harder to try to get someone to change their own habits. For example, try buying a toothpaste with a different lid that doesn’t need to be twisted, or invest in other types. Strengthen the sense of humor. There are enough problems in this world already! Nothing better than getting around a boring situation with a joke, don’t you think? This way, everything will be lighter.

Scientists have come to the conclusion that fights over small things help couples to prevent bigger conflicts. The small differences allow both to release tension quickly and not build up aggression. Also, if you fight, it just means that you care about each other and that you are in love.

Even so, the awesome.club still thinks it’s better to exchange everything for a good hug and a lot of affection, no matter how small the argument. Not worth it. 🇧🇷

What types of fights do you and your love usually have? Comment!