Okay, I know your story was very beautiful, and that you liked it like you’ve never liked anyone else, but pay close attention to what I’m going to say, this story WAS very beautiful. It’s in the past, just like all the moments you lived together. They won’t come back.

Remember when you rocked her in your arms while she kept counting the number of moles you have on your chest? When she asked you to hug her tight so she would stop feeling cold, while you were outside the pizzeria, waiting for that long line to end, which even though you hated having to stay in that giant line, you waited patiently because you knew it was there who had the Portuguese pizza, which she liked so much?

Remember when she decided to write a good morning note on your bedside table, which she left there so you would remember her every morning?

Well, that’s all in the past, and it’s not something you should keep mulling over.

You don’t need to know how many spots you have on your chest, you’ve never really liked Portuguese pizza, and you might as well put a coat of paint on her message. Stop beating yourself up. You deserve to be happy.

Do you remember that she was the one who left? Remember she was the one who hurt you? Remember that she was the one who decided to make you discredit love, right? So why do you keep erasing all the bad things from your mind, and keep fooling yourself only remembering the good things?

Close your eyes for a second, and realize how much you are boycotting yourself. How much time are you wasting busying yourself with a story that is completely doomed to fail, simply because that story, in short, no longer exists.

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Stop finding fault with all the women that appear in your life. Stop closing yourself in an impenetrable dungeon where no one will ever have access to your heart. Stop taking out of your life, people who barely managed to get into it. You deserve to be happy.

You know, life is made of experiences and learning, look at how much you mature, and as frustrating as everything you lived with her was, realize how much better you have become after all this.

There are great people out there waiting to receive love. People who will know how to take all the good you have, and will never throw it away. allow yourself.

Our life is like a book, and everything we live are its chapters. It was an important chapter, it was a necessary chapter to make you who you are to be where you are, but you need to turn the page. Need to start a new chapter. Is the risk of not working out great? It is, I’m not going to lie, but you need to stop staying stagnant where you are. Go straight on. You have nothing to lose. The worst that can happen is to go wrong, and you gain more learning from it all.

Regardless of whether it works or not, at least try, make an effort to at least try to get out of where you are. If she didn’t know how to make you happy, there’s someone out there who will know, because really, you deserve to be happy.