women who love less

I want to give my statement. I believe I have a problem. If women who love too much are those who smother their partners, who don’t trust them, who investigate every step they take and who can’t think of anything but fanciful betrayals, then I have to admit: I’m a woman who loves dearly. any less.

I never opened my husband’s cell phone inbox.

I never opened a paper that was in your wallet.

I never get annoyed if a coworker calls him.

I don’t hear his conversation on the extension.

I don’t check his car’s gas tank to see if he’s driven too much or too little.

I don’t care when he thinks another woman is beautiful, as long as she is really beautiful. If not, it’s because he has bad taste.

I don’t feel insecure if he doesn’t make declarations of love to me all the time.

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I don’t bother his life.

From what I’ve seen around, my diagnosis is unfortunate: I love him little. Will it be?

Obsession and lack of control are serious diseases and deserve respect and treatment, but to call it “to love too much” is a romanticization and a disservice to women and men. It is implied that love has measure, that love has limits, when in fact love is never too much. What exists are women and men who have low self-esteem, who have exaggerated levels of insecurity and who don’t know the difference between love and possession. And there are those who are just jealous and suspicious, becoming too boring.

But if everyone agrees that a pathology can be called “too much love”, then I will found As Mulheres que Amam De Menos, because, apparently, who is calm, who does not invade the privacy of the other and who trusts the person who chose to live is also sick.

Martha Medeiros

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