Why holding hands is more important than you think?

Every couple has their traditional way of holding hands.

And it is that sex is not the only way to physically connect with someone.

Holding hands with your partner is a deep and intimate act that has several meanings.

There are couples who hold hands in a certain way, and never change it.

And there are others that vary according to the context or the progress of the relationship.

It even occurs in romantic situations where they are not yet dating.

So the way you hold hands determines how you feel about each other.

And how they see the relationship they have.

Are you ready to find out?

What does it mean to hold a woman’s hand?

How a man grabs a woman’s hand can have several meanings.

Because? Because it depends on the context they are in and the relationship itself.

In a romantic relationship or stable relationship, holding a woman’s hand can be:

a gesture of care and affection a gesture of intimacy and emotional connection.

In addition, it is a way of showing the person that you are there and that you care about them.

In other situations, such as in a friendship or trust relationship, it can be:

a gesture of support a gesture of consolation, especially in moments of difficulty or pain.

What does the way you hold your partner’s hand mean?

Okay. Now comes the important thing. Do I have to pay attention to how he holds my hand?

OF COURSE!

The way your partner holds your hand can convey different emotions.

And this not only helps you get to know better how he feels about you.

It is also a clear way to understand how you view the relationship.

Here I leave you the most classic examples of how to hold hands.

1) With interlocked fingers

This form shows great intimacy and emotional connection.

It is a gesture that shows that the couple is very close and comfortable with each other.

It also indicates that you both feel safe and secure together.

2) With your fingers interlocked and squeezing hard

In addition to intimacy and connection, if your hand squeezes hard from time to time, it is love.

It is a very clear way to convey a deep feeling for the other.

It usually occurs when they are enjoying a moment together.

In those situations, that handshake is a physical way of saying “I love you.”

This can also occur in situations of temporary separation.

For example, when they are about to separate for a while due to a trip.

It is likely that all the way to the airport he will hold your hand tightly.

This is a sign of not wanting to let go.

3) Grab the hand with the hand above

This form usually indicates a desire for protection and to show that the person is there to support their partner.

In addition, the person who places his hand on his partner’s can be a sign that he is the one who leads the couple.

According to a study published in the American Psychological Association states that,

“Over 90% of men in heterosexual romantic partners tended to place their hand on top when they shook hands, displaying what we consider to be social dominance.”

That is, generally, the man puts his hand above the woman’s hand.

This body language indicates that you have a desire for leadership in the couple.

4) Grasping the hand with only the fingers

This way of holding hands is more informal and can be a way of just walking together.

It can also indicate a level of comfort and trust with the partner.

5) Grasp hand palm down or palm to palm

This manner can indicate a desire for control and dominance.

The person who holds their partner’s hand in this way may want to impose their will or exert power in the relationship.

6) Grab her wrist

Although it is a bit aggressive way to take someone by the hand.

It can be a symbol of passion and desire to be with the other.

It all depends on the context they are in when they do it.

If you’re about to have sex, he wants to show in a sexy way that he wants to dominate you.

7) Grasp the hand taking only one finger

It’s a little childish way of holding hands.

Express play and desire to be with the other.

8) Hold her hand gently

This usually occurs in consolidated couples.

It is a traditional way of showing affection, but it indicates great company and respect.

Interlock hands when making love

We know that when they are together between the sheets, passion flows.

Although, interlocking hands when making love can have different meanings depending on the couple.

As I mentioned before, interlocking your fingers is a sign of greater intimacy and trust.

But in general, this gesture is a way to intensify the emotional and physical connection between the two of you.

In other words, not only do you show affection to each other by doing it, but it helps guide each other while making love.

In other words, it is a way of communicating and releasing the tension of the passion they feel.

But also, a tool to set the pace or intensity they want at that moment.

Why does a man hold a woman’s hand?

Do you need to know what makes me want to hold your hand?

Will it be love or just friendship?

Here I leave the possible options for you to discover.

1) Show affection and affection

If you are in a couple, holding a woman’s hand means affection and affection.

The gesture also says that he cares about you and wants to be close to you.

2) Provide support and comfort

If you are friends and you are going through a difficult time or need help, perhaps he is telling you with this gesture that he is there for you.

3) Guide and protect

In some situations, such as walking down a busy street or a dark place, he may grab your hand to guide or protect you.

This gesture conveys a sense of security and protection.

If you’re not dating yet, he clearly cares about you.

4) The previous step

It is often said that “holding hands is the first act before a kiss.”

If you’re dating, holding hands indicates a lot of respect.

He likes you, but he considers you important.

If he gently takes your hands before kissing you, this relationship could turn into something more.

5) In public

Holding your hand in public is a way of showing his commitment and love for you.

This shows that he is proud to be with you and that he is not afraid to show it.

In addition, it is also a way of marking their territory.

When you’re in a place with other women, his holding your hand sends a clear message that he’s not available to other women (and you’re not available to other men!)

So why is holding hands in a couple important?

Holding hands in a couple is important because it can have several benefits for the relationship.

It’s not just a physical way to show affection. It also helps for:

Strengthen the emotional connection

It can help create a greater emotional connection between the two of you.

What helps the couple to feel more united and committed to each other.

promote sex

When you are in physical contact with your partner, the body releases hormones such as oxytocin, which can help reduce stress and increase feelings of well-being.

Sexy tip:

The next time you hold her hand, while her hands are clasped, lightly touch your thumb to her palm.

And, while doing so, look at him seductively.

Because? Because this gesture means that you want to make love.

If you don’t know, share it and make it something only you know.

I assure you that they will use it often.

Create security

In situations of stress or uncertainty, the simple gesture of holding your partner’s hand can help calm and reassure both of you.

Show support and loyalty

This gesture can convey that you are there for your partner and that you care about their well-being.

What does it mean if my partner does NOT hold my hand?

The fact that your partner does not hold your hand is not an alarm signal.

Evaluate if any of these possible reasons could be the reason.

Lack of habit or preference:

Some people just don’t like to hold their partner’s hands, either because they’re not used to it or they don’t like it.

Shyness or discomfort:

If your partner is shy or introverted, it will be difficult for them to take the initiative to hold your hand, even if they would like to.

Stress or worries:

If your partner is going through a difficult time in their life, they may not be in the mood to hold your hand. Patience.

Holding hands is necessary

Sometimes a simple gesture can say much more than a thousand words.

Holding hands is a demonstration of affection and connection.

And it may be a sign that there is great chemistry between the two.

But, even better, that the spark continues.

So don’t stop showing how much you care.

And if I haven’t grabbed your hand yet, why don’t you?

You may be surprised by his attitude…