Why does being single sometimes bother people so much?

We live in a society that demands and imposes a lot on us, but it is still our right to choose, right?

Sometimes it can be very frustrating to deal with so many questions about why we are single, but unless you know someone very special, don’t let despair, pressure from family or society, drive the situation and make you accept first that comes along. to avoid loneliness or obey standards.

And speaking of solitude, ‘she’ is not that seven-headed animal they paint around.

I would even say that loneliness is a great friend, which can teach you a lot, about the world, about life, about yourself.

Anyone who jumps from one relationship to another in the blink of an eye and doesn’t take the time to get to know each other, to reflect on their priorities, will never be sure about what they want out of life, or what they’re looking for in a relationship.

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Those who don’t know what they’re looking for don’t appreciate what they find, and if you don’t know where you’re going, the walk will be long, frustrating and the chances of never getting anywhere are high. What I mean is, if you can’t be happy alone, you can’t be happy with someone else either.

Be loyal to your ideals, your essence, your principles, and don’t feel obligated to have or be with someone just for others to see.

To love someone else, you need to love yourself first.

And a person with self-love won’t throw themselves into the arms of someone they’re not sure deserves to be by their side.

This also goes for unhealthy relationships, exhausting relationships, where everything is left and what is most lacking is love.

Don’t be a coward, don’t live on appearances, don’t cancel yourself, no, you don’t need anyone who doesn’t need you.

Protect yourself, know your value, be happy, and that happiness comes from within and doesn’t depend on anyone else to happen.

I believe that we don’t find love, it finds us, when we discover our true value.

Don’t settle for less than the best someone has to offer.

Never forget, you always deserve the best!

Wandy Luz

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