When you least expect it, life always surprises you.

Without knowing how or why, Life always ends up surprising you when you least expect it. Is it that perhaps we people have no control over our destiny and this vital flow in which we involve ourselves every day?

Of course, we have it. What happens is that many times it is ourselves who close the doors to opportunitiesto these changes to these satiny serendipitous acts of positivity and hope that we are all entitled to.

If there is something that we are also clear about, it is that Not by wishing for luck to reach us is it going to arrive on its own. What’s more, we also know that by acting with integrity and nobility we do not always have to be lucky. Fate doesn’t seem to act like that.

However, It all depends on the way you stand before your own life.. Sometimes, those who stand up regally and firmly, proudly with their armor on, end up broken. Sometimes, it is better to be like those ears of corn in the field that adapt to the wind and its attacks, because they are flexible, because they are light and patient…

Life, like every aspect of this world, has its rhythm. You have to know how to listen, attend and look at everyday life with an open mind and an awake heart. Good things will always come if you trust, if you feel worthy of it and know how to act.

Allow life to teach you and surprise you: open your mind

It is often said that the good in life appears to give us happiness, and the bad to give us new lessons.. Now, there are those who understand the latter not as “a vital learning”, but as a punishment from destiny.

In the life, To be great and allow ourselves to touch the stars, we must first start from the ground. Do not be afraid to experience failures, disappointments. Only those who integrate, accept and let go of the bad have the ability to fly more freely and reach the sky with the tips of their fingers.

To better understand these ideas, just give a simple example. Imagine that you have a friendship that ends up suffering a sentimental disappointment.. You try to help this person, but they themselves approach what happened not only with disappointment, but with anger and resentment.

Stop believing in love, loses trust in people and sees himself/herself as someone “not made to have a partner.” Someone who doesn’t deserve to be loved. These types of attitudes are those that close doors, those that do not let life surprise them.

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How to end limiting thoughts

Limiting thoughts are negative ideas that we consider to be true. without them being and that, furthermore, they condition our lives. Many times they are determined either by a bad experience or because they have been instilled in us as children at an educational level.

Limiting beliefs block us or nullify us, preventing us from having new learning opportunities, and even more, We deny ourselves the ability to move forward, to grow.

We now invite you to put these simple tips into practice to help break down many of those internal walls. that we have in our minds and our hearts, that almost without realizing it, we do not let life, when it wants, surprise us.

Become aware of yourself

To become aware of yourself, you need to do a little self-knowledge exercisewhere you are able to intuit your own limiting thoughts, your fears, and those barbed wire fences that we all, in some way, place around our personal growth.

By becoming aware of yourself and establishing that necessary internal dialogue, You will see that it is necessary to banish old ideas that our parents and even society itself instilled in us. Once you are able to walk free, barefoot from resentments and guilt, you will be able to see everyday life with greater hope. That’s where the good things really are.

Wrap yourself in creative beliefs

Believe in yourself and create the person you really want to be: that’s what it’s about. Is it perhaps something very difficult? In reality it is a bit, because it sometimes requires having to leave behind many things, and even people.

Note that In your social and personal circle there may be someone who limits your personal growthand that prevents you from being who you really are and who you want to be. Life will surprise us only if we go beyond our comfort zone, and For this we need to be brave, break schemes and change some other thought.

The creative force is in yourself. At this point in life you already know what adversity is, what it means to overcome the odd battle, so never give up in your efforts to maintain hope and optimism. It is an open window that should never be closed.

Images courtesy of Pascal Campion, Mijail Kohn, Art Mkl

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