What to do if he does not want to use protection?

That a man doesn’t want to put on a condom It is a way of asking you to give priority to his pleasure and forget about yours, which shows that the person in front of you is not only selfish, but macho.

Because when two people have sex it is assumed that it is for both to enjoy, to be able to enjoy without fear, so that the pleasure can spread without causing suffering to either of them. But Not using a condom puts your health at risk and can lead to an unwanted pregnancy.

He can give you a thousand reasons. He may say nice things to you when you’re together, but if he doesn’t want to use a condom, it’s because he doesn’t really want to build a nice relationship with you.

Why shouldn’t you agree to do it without a condom?

That a man wants to risk your health in exchange for a few minutes of pleasure it is a form of contempt towards you and towards your integrity.

It is abuse. Not using a condom or taking it off half way is one of the forms of abuse that we least perceive because, as always, what matters is their need and their pleasure. It seems that we have to entrust ourselves to good luck and pray that we do not have to go through a sexually transmitted disease or an unwanted pregnancy.It is humiliating. It is not fair because then we are the ones who have to go through pain, fear and anguish, the ones who will have to subject our body to treatments, the ones who will have to pay for them, the ones who will have to have a hard time for a few minutes of pleasure from him.It is violence. That a man does not want to take care of himself or take care of you to spend some time of pleasure is violence. Men can get sick and get well, we can get sick and get well, get sick and die, get pregnant and die in an abortion, or get pregnant and have unwanted children. Non-chosen motherhood is authentic torture: we risk much more than they do.

When someone is capable of making you feel that your life is worthless, they are being violent.

It is selfish. When a man doesn’t want to use a condom, it doesn’t matter what excuse he gives you: in reality, what happens is that he only cares about his pleasure, he doesn’t care about anything else. He doesn’t care about your life. He doesn’t care about your mental health, or your physical or emotional health. He doesn’t care about your well-being. He doesn’t care about your pleasure. He does not care about your right to enjoy. He doesn’t care about you.

Are you really going to play for a few minutes of sex?

You should not agree to make love without a condom at his insistence. You should not allow it to a stable partner or a one-night stand: It doesn’t matter how long the relationship lasts, whether or not there is love or whether or not there is commitment. If he asks you, even knowing the risks to which he exposes you, he is not taking care of you. And if he doesn’t take care of you, it’s very difficult for you to enjoy yourself.

There are women so desperate and in need of love that they agree not to use a condom during sex, believing that they will love them more that way. Yeah, it is very painful to realize that you are one of them.

But not, A man is not going to love you anymore if you agree not to wear a condom. Unfortunately there are millions of women in need of love in the world. If it’s not you, it will be someone else who agrees to risk their life and health so that the male ejaculates wherever he wants.

Think about it: there is nothing to do before a person who does not want to take care of himself or take care of you, it’s not worth wasting time or energy on this. It is something that is not negotiable: nobody plays with your life.

Protecting your health and protecting yourself from pregnancy is a political act: if you are not taken care of, there is no possible pleasure, there is no way to love yourself well.

Every woman who says “no” to the male who doesn’t want to wear a condom is putting into practice the feminist rebellion: there is no sex without care, there is no pleasure without care.

Let us never forget: all women have the right to enjoy without fear of getting sick or pregnant.