What is for you finds you, what does not… not even if you put yourself

What has to be will be, in due time and in its moment, because destiny is uncertain and sometimes the winds simply do not blow in our favor Not even our sails are about to be raised despite our efforts.

They say that the best things are not planned, that they just happen and that it is better not to put pressure on time. Because really if something is supposed to happen, it will happen anyway. And if he shouldn’t do it, then he won’t do it. It is simple.

That’s why from time to time it is good not to plan or wait, to stop demanding reasons to continue moving along a path that we do not see very clear and to get out of the world of expectations and programming.

The fact that things are simpler than we originally thought opens up a wide range of possibilities for enjoying life. from another perspective that is much more relaxed and friendly for our well-being.

Everything happens, everything arrives, everything transforms

We will probably all agree that We are a product of our circumstances and our desires. However, sometimes these are incompatible or, at least, it is difficult for us to digest the consequences they entail. This generates worries that make us feel distressed and, as they say, make our existence bitter.

On this occasion it is good that we use a famous Arab proverb that contains within itself an overwhelming logic: If it has a solution, why do you worry? And if it doesn’t, why do you worry?

The truth is that yes, it seems obvious that We shouldn’t worry about what we can’t solve, But letting go and staying calm at certain times can be practically impossible.

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That’s why perhaps what we should learn is that there are certain things that are beyond our control and that Letting life flow and accepting what the circumstances are is the best of our options on many occasions.

We are not the shell, we are the breath

We are what we digest, the stones we trip over, the scratches we do not heal and the tragic endings of our lives. We are not all smiles, joys or truths, we are also lies (those that tell us and those that we tell ourselves)we are the criticisms and the tears that we do not cry.

So it is more than complicated to encompass everything that makes us up with our reins. But this does not mean that we have to distrust happiness or, simply, the coincidences of life.

It is not about believing or not believing in destiny, but about letting circumstances surprise us and thus open the windows of emotional relaxation to help us revive our feelings.

From time to time it is necessary to escape from ourselves and our expectations. That is, washing our mind to gain perspective, counting to ten and filling our lungs with oxygen.

This will help us not miss trains and not regret what we have lost due to our restless habit of marking the punctuation marks in a text. When it has to be a full stop, let it be, but let’s respect the ellipses, commas and full stops.

They say that what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger and that it is precisely that impulse that helps you travel kilometers and kilometers of stone paths with bare feet. The truth is that The key is to squeeze out mistakes and enjoy the winds of change.

Remember that Those parts of you that you don’t usually connect with lose the strength they need to activate. Therefore, don’t let life pass you by watching your watch batteries drain, don’t go back in time.

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Give it continuity, Learn to relax, to look closely at those thoughts that harm you and to contemplate life with patience. Don’t try to plan every millimeter of your routesometimes you just need to unfocus your camera, let time pass and let yourself be carried away by coincidences.