It’s amazing how we get used to things unnecessary our life. We are used to looking at the world the wrong way and from a limited point of view. We look through our window and don’t allow ourselves to take off the curtain, open the door and see beyond. As we do not see beyond, we do not see the light. You don’t see the sun, you don’t feel the air, you don’t let yourself be enchanted by the brightness of the stars.

We are used to going to bed late and waking up at the last minute. Not drinking coffee and eating junk food on the street. Not taking lunch break and leaving work later. Dozing off in class and not paying attention to the content that was taught. Reading sad news in the newspaper believing that the world is just as bad and that’s why it won’t change.

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People get used to being in a hurry and filling themselves with tasks. But also getting used to procrastinating and leaving everything for later. Get used to people who give too little, while we try to give too much. We get used to talking a lot and not listening to anyone.

We are used to receiving the love we think we deserve and not what we actually deserve. We accept delays, excuses, indifference and lack of reciprocity. We allow ourselves to put too much soul into empty people. We get used to feeling too much for something that is not worth it and running after, whenever the other one has gone.

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We learn to force those who don’t want to stay and, displace who stay. We fall in love with appearance and forget that what really remains is the essence. We accepted to live in contempt, when in fact we wanted to live in mutuality.

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People get used to holding resentment and being filled with unforgiveness. Get used to what hurts the heart for fear of being alone. He learns to cancel himself because “it is better to have peace than to be right”. “Even if that peace is full of internal conflicts. — And so, we continue to believe that silence is always the best solution.

And we get used to saving life, to avoid loneliness. Because before, it’s better to be two, than to live sad being one. Even though these two are a in its essence. We should stop getting used to what is not true, which has no life, which has no color. With that which doesn’t make us grow and that holds our hearts.

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We should learn to live in reciprocity and to live in connection. Connection of soul, of thought, of life. But getting used to it is easier. And in this process, we end up getting lost. Forget the good feeling of loving, allowing yourself and living.

And when the end comes, what do we do? Get used to it, but you shouldn’t.