True love does not appear by magic, it is built

Let’s talk about true love, but about that love without packaging, without artifice or romanticism. The authentic one and the one that is capable of lasting over time, providing sincere happiness, an enriching daily life where the couple can grow personally and together.

Does true love exist? Of course yes, but we should not have the world of cinema or literature as a reference, we are sure that around you, or perhaps even you yourself, are experiencing it. If so, we are sure that You already know the secret: the effort, the dedication to build that relationship day by day.where both members are capable of teaming up and contributing their energies equally.

Because sometimes, love alone is not enough. It doesn’t matter the passion, the attraction or that feeling that blinds us and overwhelms us. A healthy relationship needs more than all of this to be authentic and lasting. Let’s talk about it today, let’s delve into the concept of true love: the one that doesn’t hurt and that enriches us.

The myth of romantic love

The world of cinema and literature may be the main culprits that many of us have grown up with that type of “romantic” love seen on the big screen and read in the pages of books as a reference. They have shown us great stories capable of dazzling us to make us dreamunsustainable fallacies that we can rarely find in the real world.

“Romantic love” is not true love, we must be clear. And even more, We must be careful not to fall into those dangerous myths that are sometimes enclosed in the ideal of romanticism.:

The love is for ever

This idea is not entirely false, we cannot deny that there are many couples who are able to keep their love alive until the day they die. However, Far from thinking that “love should be forever,” ask yourself first if you are happy today.. And even more so, sometimes there are fleeting loves but so intense that they are worth living.

Jealousy is a sign of love

For romantic love, jealousy is an expression of affection. Without jealousy there is no real and sincere love. The idea of ​​jealousy as a sign of love is an absolute risk, a sign of domination and mistrust that builds a large part of those toxic relationships that we often see.

love is passion

Another misconception about romantic love, thinking that a relationship without passion is not a true couple.. Feelings must be taken to the extreme, where sexuality finds its maximum expression and affection has no middle ground.

A false myth. A relationship goes through stages and, Although over time the intensity of the beginning is lost, there is still an intimacy and a complicity that unites the couple even more.

The foundations of true love

True love doesn’t need artifice nor is it sustained by that magic where things turn out well because “we are predestined.” Obviously, this does not mean that there is no such spark where chance was perhaps largely to blame for two people meeting, but leaving the “halo of magic” aside, what truly matters is the day to day, where The little things build a true relationship.

A good comunication

A communication where listening is sincere and we can speak in a democratic way, reaching agreements. The forces are distributed, there are no losers, the scales tend to balance and the dialogues are continuous.

And be careful, Discussions are also present in good communication., it is normal and it is necessary to be honest. It is important not to keep or hide anything, otherwise resentment may appear.

Support and recognition

The two members respect and value each other authentically, recognizing virtues and defects. There is no contempt, there is no irony or humiliation, consideration is mutual. and personal growth is allowed, while maturing as a couple.

Complicity and sincere affection

It is possible that over the years we lose that passion from the beginning, but we still remain happy. A healthy, happy and satisfied couple knows that True love is nourished by that everyday complicity where you look for each other with your eyes.where we can continue smiling and getting excited about a common future.

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Image: “Before Sunset” (2004)