Throw me to the wolves and I’ll lead the pack

Each He carries a battle of his own on his back and in his heart.. None can compare to your neighbor’s, your partner’s, or your best friend’s. We all carry our fears well hidden, traces of the past that have not yet healed and present labyrinths in which sometimes we cannot find the exit. In which we see more enemies than allies, but today I will lead the pack.

Is there any explanation as to why we have had to experience certain situations? There are those who say that our problems are a direct result of our own actions or bad decisions. Not true, this rule is not always correct.

Sometimes things fail because adversity hits us randomly, without further ado. Because the one you trusted now fails you. Because what was safe before is no longer safe. Because health is not always made of iron, but of glass and we have to face everything.

It is not easy, but the truth is that, when we come into this world, no one assures us that our days will be peaceful. Someone, somewhere, should warn us that must Learn as soon as possible to be leaders in packs of wolves. Strong creatures in the face of all adversity. So tell us… Are you also a good fighter?

I will lead my adversaries, I will fight difficulties

Reflect for a few moments on this question: What was your first encounter with adversity? It is often said that people We lose our innocence the moment the first difficulty appears, the loss or that setback that changed our way of seeing the world forever.

We are aware that, sometimes, great words come to nothing, smoke that escapes through an open window through motivational phrases that many cannot apply to reality.

Despite this, and knowing that your difficulties are very special, it is worth thinking about it, that Break some of your internal schemes to defeat external enemies. Keep these aspects in mind, think about them:

There is no worse enemy than your own limiting thoughts.. Sometimes we come to think that our surroundings are full of wolves, of constant threats that veto our personal growth, our happiness.Change your thoughts and you will change your reality. No. It is not a cliché.Take power away from those who hurt you or did it to you in the past. Move forward without useless weights.Do not increase your suffering with silent resentments, say what you think… and set limits.

Reflect for a moment, instead of focusing your attention on the outside to contemplate your adversities, Look inside yourself and find the value that the sense of survival has offered you without knowing it.

How to cope with difficulties

Sometimes we get tired of being told what The greatest learning is offered to us by adversity, Vital moments that test us so that through suffering we acquire knowledge.

We all live in the “here and now” waiting for that vital knowledge to fall to us from the sky to improve our situation. How long should I wait? If I live among them for a long time… When will I finally be able to lead my wolf pack?

There are those who get used to living with their enemies. She accepts, assumes and lets herself be carried away by the fear of change, by fear of what may happen. We cannot criticize it. Everyone is free to live the life they want, even if it is accompanied by unhappiness and frustration.

Lead your life, we assure you that the effort is worth it. To do this, recognize your enemies, the external ones and also the internal ones (is it fear? Is it indecision? Do you feel insecure?)Name what happens to you. Are you unhappy around someone? Doesn’t the life you have now make you happy? What are you afraid of? It’s time to impose your voice, but you will start by talking to yourself: What do I need to feel better? Is the effort going to be worth it? How will I lead my fears to make them disappear? And my foreign enemies?

Images courtesy: Marjorie Miller, Yan Yuunei

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