The way your partner shows affection reveals what he values in you.

Saying “I love you” is perhaps the easiest way to let someone know how much you care about them, but there are other ways to do this. When it comes to expressing emotions, each individual has their own strategies. While some bet more on words, others prefer to invest in gestures and attitudes. And the way in which your partner shows affection may not be the same as you, which can provoke a feeling of anxiety and raise doubts about the depth of the feeling and desire of the other.

O incredible.club identified 6 ways in which people often express, without using words, their feelings for their partner. And as it couldn’t be otherwise, we decipher what each one of them means.

1. Listening to you as if it were a personal diary

If your partner is always ready to listen to you and offer support on both happy and sad days, it’s because not only is he a good listener, but he also values trust in the relationship to two. By allowing you to vent, your partner strengthens the connection between the two of you, making the relationship much more solid and honest.

2. Like affection as much as you do

When we are in love, exchanging affection is one of the greatest joys found in the relationship. If your partner loves to cuddle as much as you do, it means that he or she loves taking time out with you too. Furthermore, it is a sign that the person values intimacy in the relationship. Unexpected kisses on the forehead and tight hugs also indicate that the person tries to demonstrate how important you are to them without having to translate it into words.

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3. Give you strength to achieve your goals

Being in a relationship doesn’t necessarily mean wanting to be there for your partner all the time, or texting them 24 hours a day. After all, a couple is made up of two individuals, with different goals and dreams. If your partner encourages you to dedicate more time to the pursuit of your goals, instead of complaining about not being the center of your attention, it’s because he values personal space. Understanding that your partner also has a life of their own and the right to pursue their own dreams is a sign of maturity and true love.

4. Help with the domestic routine

If your partner doesn’t mind taking care of dirty laundry every day or doing certain household chores on a regular basis, it’s because he sees you as a peer, as your better half. Finding someone who values equality in a relationship can be really difficult. So if you’ve found someone that special, do your best not to lose them!

5. Like to talk about yourself to loved ones

The clearest sign that your partner is not playing with your feelings is when he talks about you to his friends and family. If your partner doesn’t mind talking about your relationship with other people, it means that he values the commitment, and who is with you for the right reasons. He certainly sees a future with him.

6. Show affection in public whenever you go out together

Showing affection in public every now and then is great, but if your partner does it all the time, it’s good to be on your toes. Wanting to flaunt your relationship to everyone is a sign of insecurity. And if your partner just can’t keep their hands off your body, even in public, it could indicate a feeling of greed towards you.

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How do you show affection for your loved one when you don’t want to use words? Have you ever dated someone who couldn’t express feelings? How is it possible to deal with this, in your opinion? Comment!

Illustrated by Polina Koshel exclusive to Incrível.club