The top 10 phrases to say to someone who ignores you and you love them

You are madly in love with a boy. You haven’t tried anything yet or maybe some little things but so far nothing has worked. He ignores you and you feel that this makes it more difficult for you to get to have something with him.

At the same time, you don’t want to keep trying to do anything to attract him. You want to be assertive and win him over.

For this we tell you what are the best phrases to tell someone that they ignore you and you love them. Then we show you some indirect actions that you can take, if you are too shy to talk to him.

10 phrases to make a man fall in love who ignores you

1) I like sincere, kind, funny and affectionate men, just like you!”

This is a perfect phrase to tell the boy that you like in a direct conversation or in the middle of a WhatsApp chat.

The best thing about this phrase is that you will totally surprise him and leave him thinking, if he doesn’t answer anything at that moment.

If he only considers you as a friend, this phrase can be an excellent trigger for him to see you in a different way.

2) “After all this time we’ve known each other, I have to be honest: I really like you a lot”

You can use this phrase when you are already madly in love and all you want is to be in a romantic relationship with this guy.

But before telling him you should consider that you can lose his friendship forever.

Continuing to be friends, if he doesn’t feel the same way about you, can be very difficult to achieve, after having said this sentence to him.

3) “I have strong feelings for a person and I don’t know how to convey it to them, how would you do it?”

Wait for him to reply and tell him the exact same thing.

You might even make him laugh.

He will surely have thought carefully about what to say to you to help you and when he hears you say it to him, he cannot help but be completely amazed.

In addition, you will be telling him verbatim what he would like to hear.

This will make him really think about being with you. It is not so easy to dismiss something that you yourself have said that you would like to hear.

4) “This time I want to be direct, would you like to go out with me?”

One tactic that can work very well is when you don’t let the other person think too much about things.

The important thing is that with this sentence you at least get him to try going out with you.

Perhaps he has never thought of you that way, but being direct does not leave him much room for reflection.

If you’re already friends, then he likes you in a way. Saying this phrase will make it more difficult for him to reject you.

5) “Don’t you think we would make a beautiful couple? We tried?”

And if you dare, you wink at him…

If you feel like he has feelings for you too, this is a great line to say to him.

Maybe he ignores you, because he wants something with you, but he does not dare to tell you, because he is afraid of spoiling everything.

So, a good idea is for you to step up and start what can be a great love story. Otherwise, perhaps both of you are missing out on a great opportunity.

6) “I have wanted to tell you something for a long time: I would love to have a relationship with you and be by your side”

In this case it can be someone you have known for a long time and he has not noticed your existence.

This is probably so, because you are shy. You’ve spent too long waiting. Surely you have been gathering courage and now it is time to act.

But before saying a phrase like this to him, you must make sure that he is not in a relationship, otherwise he will very likely reject you.

7) “Life is short and if I don’t say it now, I might lose the opportunity of a lifetime: I like you too much!”

This phrase is excellent, because it makes him understand how important he is to you. It also shows him that you have taken the courage to talk to him and that you are confident with your decision.

Additionally, it will make you reflect on how we should not miss opportunities and that life goes by fast. This will give you a better chance for something to happen between the two of you.

8) “I am afraid that you do not feel the same way, but I am even more afraid of not expressing my feelings to you: I love you”

Another phrase that shows the courage you had to muster to confess your feelings to him.

Also, telling him that you love him at the end is really sweet and expresses some love in its proper measure.

Sometimes it’s important not to exaggerate when someone ignores you, because you don’t know for sure what the reasons for it are.

But I love you comes to anyone’s heart, even if they don’t feel the same.

At most, if he doesn’t feel the same way about you, he’s more likely to gently make you understand.

9) “If I do things for you, it is not to please you. It’s to show you that I love you.”

By saying this phrase you want to express how much you care about him.

That if he feels the same you will be immensely happy, but that it has to come from within. Not because you do things for him. You do this selflessly and because you want it.

Sure you want them to be together, but you want everything to be authentic for both of you.

10) “I don’t expect an answer now, I just want you to listen to me. I really like you, you have attracted me since the first day I saw you and with the passage of time my emotions have been growing more and more. I can’t help it”

Here you are communicating that you know that they may be surprised by what you are saying and it is not necessary for them to answer you immediately.

Understand that it may take some time to process this information, as it has been unaware of your existence up to now.

Perhaps he has not considered you in a romantic way and has to think of you that way now.

Also, you are conveying the intensity of your emotions to him, so that he understands the magnitude of your feelings towards him.

Other ways to show someone who ignores you that you love them

We all know that the best way to tell someone that you love them is to put it into words.

But we also understand that there are women who are introverts and that speaking directly can be quite a challenge for them.

That is why below we will tell you some things that you can do, to express that you want it, in a more subtle way. He ignores you and this way can be good for an approach and see how he reacts to it.

1) Have small details with him

If you’re at an event and talking in a group, you can stand next to him without looking too obvious.

Then, you can offer him a coffee or something to drink in a relaxed and casual way.

Also when you speak, pay full attention and try to make comments that contribute positively to your topic of conversation.

2) Send him photos or indirect and funny messages

If you already have his cell phone and you are in contact with him, you can choose to use this means.

You can put together a photomontage of the two of you in a funny scene, where you are very close and write “I like you”.

Another option may be that you write a message with a hint, which is a direct medium.

For example: “Being acquaintances (or friends) has gotten boring, why don’t we try something else? (wink)

3) Use your body language

Try to stay close to him, but without being annoying. You don’t need to have physical contact.

Just when you see him starting a conversation, comment something short and move closer to him, so he can notice your presence.

Also, keep your arms at your sides or entwined behind your back. This pose shows that you are willing.

You should never cross your arms across your chest or slouch inward.

Straighten your back and chest out, show an open and relaxed posture.

4) You can subtly flirt with him

You can do this by joking with him, gently touching his arm or back, or smiling every time your eyes meet.

Perhaps in this way he will stop ignoring you and begin to understand that you have feelings for him.

5) Hold your gaze with his

Another powerful flirting and showing interest maneuver is to look him square in the eye and not look away.

This gesture can be worth a thousand words.

If you manage to deepen the look you can convey how much you love him, without omitting a sound.

You can achieve the latter, thinking about everything you would say to him and capturing it in that look that you are giving him.

6) Send her a song

Send him a song with a title that suggests your attraction and desire for this guy. Maybe he’ll take the hint and find out what you’re feeling.

If you see that he does not take the hint, tell him “listen to the lyrics”. With this, you will surely notice.

Ultimately you can tell him that it is a message from you to him.

7) Create a casual encounter

One of the best strategies to show a man that you like him is to bump into him by chance.

When they see each other, begin by saying: “I’m delighted to have found you”

Then talk to him about anything, but with a huge smile and a sparkle of joy in your eyes.

This way you will be able to see if there starts to be chemistry between you and how he reacts to this approach.

The 5 most common reasons why he is ignoring you

1) He takes love lightly

At this point in his life he is taking romantic relationships easy.

Maybe you don’t read fairy tales or romance novels, and you don’t really think a relationship is that important yet.

Or perhaps you recently had a bad experience or heartbreak, and you’re not ready to start something new.

2) There is something else going on in your life

It can be something very exciting in his life, like meeting someone new and because of it he hasn’t noticed you.

Or you may also be resolving or going through important situations such as a health problem, a strong fight with a family member, or difficulties at work.

3) He is trying to be honest

He has realized that you really like him and he doesn’t want to create false hopes in you.

That is why you have decided to step aside and distance yourself, so that you can resume your life.

4) You don’t know how to handle the situation

The reality is that he doesn’t like you, and now he’s too uncomfortable to admit it.

Maybe he’s flirted with you, but his mind has convinced him that ignoring you is a better alternative than telling you he’s not interested.

5) He is playing hard to get

Playing hard to get isn’t just something girls do, they do this from time to time too.

He might be ignoring you just because he might want more attention and you to chase him.

This is not a good way to behave with someone. If this is your case, think carefully if you want to be with such a person.

6) He lost his cell phone

This may be a possibility. It’s not common, but it can happen.

It could have slipped out of his pocket while he was eating at a restaurant or he could have left it in the taxi on the way home.

Final thoughts

There is a phrase that we have all heard: “life is too short”.

This applies to anything and in your case you should think carefully, how long are you willing to try.

Otherwise, you will let your life go by and waste other opportunities that…