The story of the woman who decided not to let her own mother see her newborn son

Family relationships can be very complex and difficult, especially since we are taught from a young age that the family always comes first. However, sometimes parents and children just can’t find a way to communicate in a healthy way, a problem that often has its roots in childhood. But how to deal with parents who intimidate, make demands and expect their children to always satisfy them? It’s not always easy to know how to act in cases like this, which is why from time to time some drastic decisions need to be made.

Thinking about it, the awesome.club separated the story of a very concerned reader who got in touch with us to tell details of how her mother always made her life difficult.

After reading this message, the Incredible came together to talk about this topic. We thought of a few words and advice that might help calm Felicity’s temper.

Dear Felicity,

First, thank you very much for sharing your issue with us. His story is quite difficult, as his mother seems to be a complex person who is very difficult to talk to. Things would be so much easier if you could sit down and talk openly with her. However, the situation does not seem so simple, so you will have to take some different measures from now on.

Sounds like your mom needs you more than you need her: you mentioned that she always gets in touch with you when she needs something. This doesn’t mean she doesn’t care about you, it’s just her way of communicating from a distance. Also, maybe you’re an independent person with a great ability to help others, the kind of person she doesn’t have by her side.Your mother is putting you down and this could be happening for many reasons. More likely, she’s just jealous that you’re doing something with your life. Maybe she feels threatened by your success and needs to make you feel inferior. Remember that she comes to you whenever she needs something; i.e. she probably thinks about you a lot, but she feels bad that you don’t need her anymore.She wants you to need her, but you know that this is not a reality. This problem happens to many mothers who see their children grow up and not depend on them 24 hours a day and 7 days a week. But of course her attitude won’t help anything and that’s why she resents you.

She wanted to expose you based on your previous experiences. We don’t know what happened, but she said you’re a free woman, so something must have happened. However, she has no right to judge you or your past, and such insinuations should not be allowed to anyone, not even your mother.she is trying hurt your feelings, and seems to be looking at different ways to do this. Maybe she does it because she’s bored, or she’s just looking for new thrills.you are right in detach🇧🇷 Talking to someone so dominant only causes more disagreements. In that sense, the best thing to do is to stay away for a while and wait for her behavior to change. That is, you are setting your boundaries and she will have to respect them if she wants to have a relationship with you.You have every right to prevent your mother from meeting your child.🇧🇷 There are no laws that stop you from doing what you are doing; that is, as a mother you can decide whether your child and grandmother will meet. If you feel that your mother’s presence will have a negative effect on your family life, you may want to keep her away or limit her visits. And if later on you don’t feel comfortable talking about your child with your mother, you can use a person to mediate the relationship.

Have you ever experienced a situation similar to this? Have you ever needed to move away from your parents or know someone who has experienced this? How would you handle this situation if you were in Felicity’s shoes?