The people who pass through our lives do not leave us alone. They leave a piece of themselves, they take a part of us.

The people who pass through our lives do not leave us alone. They leave a piece of themselves, they take a part of us.

To love is to create bonds. And some will leave marks that we will carry for the rest of our lives. It is strong, seems radical and even borders on the absurd for many.

You don’t get away from romances unscathed, no matter how “beautiful” those moments were. We forever carry in our emotional memory the marks and legacies of a previous relationship.

Do not be deceived! There is no emotional amnesia. You won’t forever delete someone who tagged you from your memories.

You can make use of emotional dressings, after healing, it will leave scars. It won’t hurt anymore, but the mark stays.

Single time is not the moment in life where you enjoy love adventures, but the phase that will base, through your choices, your future marriage.

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Your happiness in love will depend on the choices you are making today and the way you are living your life right now.

If you continue to live your life in line with the philosophies that romantic songs teach you, those songs most played in Brazil, you will continue to perpetuate the pain and suffering that these songs express.

Stop believing the lies and philosophies about love you enjoy in catchphrases spread on the internet.

If you keep doing what everyone else does, you will continue to suffer like everyone else suffers.

When you get married, how many people do you want to take with you to your wedding? Who has several loves in life, never had any!

Text republished with the author’s permission: Eu Escolhi Esperar

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