Stopping caring about someone overnight: is this really possible?

It is a fact that Relationships are changing and love ends. Knowing this, it is natural for us to accept that at one time or another we will go from a foreground to a second and even a third. However, it is not so logical that these changes happen overnight, that you stop caring about someone so quickly, in a relationship where there is supposedly love.

When we live this in our skin and believe that we have stopped caring about a person, We begin to structure a mental map in order to know what have been the causes of the other passing away from us. Obviously, the direct consequence of eating our heads with this story is very simple: we end up making a movie that we don’t even believe ourselves.

In the end, the panorama before us is bleak: we have destroyed ourselves and those we have or had at our side have allowed it and even empowered it. But yes, You may be on the ground, but there is nothing like hitting bottom to be able to come to the surface.

At the same moment that you realize that you haven’t cared about that person for a long time, you realize that The one you should dedicate yourself to is yourself. If you cultivate that relationship, you will be able to create a network of healthy exchanges from which they can never destroy you again.

How can we quickly know that he doesn’t really care about us?

Jorge Bucay answers the question: How do we know if we have stopped caring? with a nice story titled “The Princess is looking for a husband.” It’s only three minutes, it’s worth it…

In the end, It all boils down to the fact that someone who is not able to prevent you from suffering does not deserve your love. And love does not understand prominence, ideals or pride. In these matters we tend to make a beach out of a grain of sand, which contributes to self-destruction.

Love is complicity and companionship, which means being able to trust each other. Loving also implies a responsibility, that of making the bad moments more bearable, that of enjoying the good, that of going hand in hand and accompanying. When all this fails, something goes wrong…

4 signs that they are not valuing you

They don’t save you suffering because your life is worth more.

The fact that his pride, his tasks or his interests are worth more than your well-being is an indication that something is very wrong between the two of you.

They don’t listen to your requests and even make you feel guilty and selfish when you ask to breathe.

It is understood in this point and in the previous one that what you need are not “impossible”. That is to say, not even the basic principles of a relationship are respected: dedication and gratitude.

Small details are conspicuous by their absence

You no longer share practically anything. Not because you don’t want to, but because anything comes before the two of you or, rather, before you. He has no interest in making you feel special or in keeping the flame of love alive.

He doesn’t care about you

You may feel that person is closer to you in good times than in bad, although it is also likely that they will not be by your side whatever the circumstance. What other clue do you need to realize that something is not going well?

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